Quoting Ashley Reay:" def feel better when I am pregnant too. But, I am not very far along and with this being my fourth in ... [snip!] ... boobs again but I dont want to make him wait or make him feel like he is doing anything wrong to make me feel so uncomfortable"
4th in 4 years!?!?!?!? Oh dear! That is insane!
I don't think he would view it that way. I am not sure if he has other children or if this is his first BUT, I am sure he is in tune with your feelings and emotions. I can't imagine him thinking it is something he is doing. My husband is a dolt about many things but he always knows when I am uncomfortable in my skin and knows it is not his fault. Then he will go above and beyond to make me feel better about myself. If that means a foot rub or a back rub and a snuggle rather than sex, he will put aside his needs to reassure me that to him I am the most beautiful woman in the world.
Maybe a conversation with him about the wonderful emotions of pregnancy and insecurities will give him a leg up and not take it personal. It took 4 years for my husband to catch on that women do get insecure more often than a man does. When have you ever met a man that was afraid to shake it in plain sight after a shower? lol Men worry less about their appearance than women do. They are concerned about performance so make sure to let him know that his performance isn't a problem if that is the truth. I have been married nearly 8 years and it is always a work in progress. Start out as honest as you can with feelings right away and it will always pay off.