ready to get more "comfortable" with so. I need HELP!!!

o "experimenting" when I was younger, but when I turned 18 I got married and it kind of took a toll on my self confidence (especially in the bedroom) Now I am divorced and 13 weeks pregnant. I am completely in love with my so and want to prove it but I get too scared to just jump back in to whre I left off 4 years ago. How do I feel better about myslelf naked and trying different positions? Has anyone EVER been in this situation???

Quoting Ashley Reay:" o "experimenting" when I was younger, but when I turned 18 I got married and it kind of took a toll on ... [snip!] ... 4 years ago. How do I feel better about myslelf naked and trying different positions? Has anyone EVER been in this situation???"

I was most comfortable in my skin when I was pregnant. I don't know why but that is when I felt the most beautiful. Not when I was young and thin. Hard to explain. I guess it really boils down to how you see yourself and feel about yourself. Your SO clearly doesn't have an issue with your body or sex wouldn't be an option.  

def feel better when I am pregnant too. But, I am not very far along and with this being my fourth in 4 years I have some.. well baby flab I am not proud of. I know everything will be fine once I get that cute belly and awesome boobs again but I dont want to make him wait or make him feel like he is doing anything wrong to make me feel so uncomfortable

Quoting Ashley Reay:" def feel better when I am pregnant too. But, I am not very far along and with this being my fourth in ... [snip!] ... boobs again but I dont want to make him wait or make him feel like he is doing anything wrong to make me feel so uncomfortable"

4th in 4 years!?!?!?!? Oh dear! That is insane!

I don't think he would view it that way. I am not sure if he has other children or if this is his first BUT, I am sure he is in tune with your feelings and emotions. I can't imagine him thinking it is something he is doing. My husband is a dolt about many things but he always knows when I am uncomfortable in my skin and knows it is not his fault. Then he will go above and beyond to make me feel better about myself. If that means a foot rub or a back rub and a snuggle rather than sex, he will put aside his needs to reassure me that to him I am the most beautiful woman in the world.

Maybe a conversation with him about the wonderful emotions of pregnancy and insecurities will give him a leg up and not take it personal. It took 4 years for my husband to catch on that women do get insecure more often than a man does. When have you ever met a man that was afraid to shake it in plain sight after a shower? lol Men worry less about their appearance than women do. They are concerned about performance so make sure to let him know that his performance isn't a problem if that is the truth. I have been married nearly 8 years and it is always a work in progress. Start out as honest as you can with feelings right away and it will always pay off.

Good Luck!!!

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thank you! that helps a lot. and this is his first. so I guess thats why I feel so insecure. I didnt gradually get like this with him. but everything you said helps a lot thank you.

Quoting Not tellin:" 4th in 4 years!?!?!?!? Oh dear! That is insane! I don't think he would view it that way. I am not ... [snip!] ... always a work in progress. Start out as honest as you can with feelings right away and it will always pay off. Good Luck!!!"

Quoting DeanJade&Maksims Momma:" sexy bra and lace panties   I love my panties I just don't feel right having forplay without them, also ... [snip!] ... them, also do ur makeup and hair, I feel 10xs more sexy when my hairs flying around and my lip gloss is smeared all over  "

The hair and make up idea I am going to try tonight.   wish me luck. ;)

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ashley Reay:</b>" The hair and make up idea I am going to try tonight.   wish me luck. ;)"</blockquote>




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