Quoting *Dezira*:" Im due in 7 weeks!! YAY but I have a 3 year old and I'm a single mother and I was wondering the best ... [snip!] ... Is that a good idea? I don't want Aleeah thinking that this baby is taking up all my time away from her. HOPELESSLY LOST!"
Well, my twins were super involved in my pregnancy with their brother. They were 25 months old when he was born. They knew the day I left for the hospital that they were going to meet their baby brother that day. They charged the hospital room to meet him. They climed up in my bed and wanted to "hok" him. lol I had a c-section so you can imagine how much fun that was. lol If she knows what is coming, why the worry about the introduction?
It might be nice to let her stay with her dad for a few days. Give you a little one on one bonding time and recovery time. I can't see it as a bad thing. This way you are also rested so when the 3yr old questions and "help" comes along, you aren't so frustrated.