re: wwyd

Quoting dat uterus tho:" <blockquote><b>Quoting shes*almost*one!:</b>" because it affects all the children... ... [snip!] ... a 4 year old names. I'm not apologizing for considering excluding someone who I KNOW will injure one of my guests or my child."

he's only 4!!? awww.

when someone has a birthday party in my daughter's classroom either all the children are invited or none of them. we dont have any "bad" kids. her school has a very selective admissions process. do unto others...

Invite him. You don't want to raise hell with his parents who might complain to the school about a lack of invitation.

<blockquote><b>Quoting NevviesMom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting dat uterus tho:</b>" All parents well be invited to stay, I'm ... [snip!] ... It's not your fault their son can't control himself, that's their problem. I'd be embarassed as smurf if that were my kid"</blockquote>



I think he might have behavioral issues . Or maybe he's just spoiled, who knows.

Either way, hopefully they just don't come or he by some miracle behaves.

<blockquote><b>Quoting shes*almost*one!:</b>" he's only 4!!? awww. when someone has a birthday party in my daughter's classroom either all the children ... [snip!] ... are invited or none of them. we dont have any "bad" kids. her school has a very selective admissions process. do unto others..."</blockquote>



I think she's the first birthday they've had since she started in August, so idk how the other parents would handle it.

I think it's ridiculous to say I have to provide food for everyone or my kid can't have a birthday. What if I couldn't afford that smurf?

Quoting shes*almost*one!:" because it affects all the children... are you serious? you must be the biggest jerk if you're seriously considering excluding one little prick"

It's her choice.

He very well may have other issues going on in his life that cause him to act out that way and he may just need some time and someone to be kind to him. Seriously I was a horrible child at 5 due to the abuse from my father and it wasn't really due to any fault of my own. You can't blame a 4 year old for being an ass. I definitely would not exclude him. and when you say he's going to injure one of your guests, I can't imagine a 4 year old could do that much damage. if he pulls someones hair or throws a cup of water, it's not the end of the world. better to make him feel accepted, otherwise he'll never have an opportunity to change.

Quoting Back to Noob Status:" Invite him. You don't want to raise hell with his parents who might complain to the school about a lack of invitation."

Like they can do anything about it.

Parents get too butt hurt these days. We're not even allowed to send invitations to the school to be passed out lol -.-

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tasha Norman:</b>" He very well may have other issues going on in his life that cause him to act out that way and he may ... [snip!] ... of water, it's not the end of the world. better to make him feel accepted, otherwise he'll never have an opportunity to change."</blockquote>



The kid has bitten hard enough to break the skin and has twice caused another child to need stitches. That's not "throwing a cup of water" harmless.

I don't know why he's still enrolled there really he's a walking liability for the school.

Quoting sταrry skies:" It's her choice."

i think you're missing my point... in a lot of preschools / grade schools its school policy to invite everyone. aw well.

<blockquote><b>Quoting dat uterus tho:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Tasha Norman:</b>" He very well may have other issues going ... [snip!] ... "throwing a cup of water" harmless. I don't know why he's still enrolled there really he's a walking liability for the school."</blockquote>



Oh wow! I don't blame you for not wanting to invite him!!

Quoting dat uterus tho:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Tasha Norman:</b>" He very well may have other issues going ... [snip!] ... "throwing a cup of water" harmless. I don't know why he's still enrolled there really he's a walking liability for the school."

yeah he sounds dreadful. do you think he'd act different with his parents there?

I wouldn't invite him, but I'm an smurf.
Other kids needing stitches? That's ridiculous an dangerous. What if he seriously injures another kid and wrecks your daughters birthday??

<blockquote><b>Quoting shes*almost*one!:</b>" yeah he sounds dreadful. do you think he'd act different with his parents there?"</blockquote>




I'm not sure, he hadn't bitten anyone when the parents are around but he's not a daily bitter either so it might be a hit or miss thing.

I'm now kind of costarring just having my daughter invite her like 8 closest friends and avoid the whole thing.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Monkey Nuts:</b>" I wouldn't invite him, but I'm an smurf. Other kids needing stitches? That's ridiculous an dangerous. What if he seriously injures another kid and wrecks your daughters birthday??"</blockquote>



Yeah, that's why I'm having a hard time.

I don't want to exclude him, but I don't want to have to be worrying about what he's doing the whole party either.