Okay so, recently DB's niece ( we will call her C) has been having headaches for the past 2 years - ish. She was recently seen by a neurologist. Her grandmother who is \BD's mom has custody of her, she obviously took her to this doctor appointment. The grandmother called me (we will call her J) and said she wanted to talking about LO's health. Great I thought, finally that side of the family is showing interest and would like to be involved with his medical situation.
Keep in mind, none of the family including BD has EVER been to a doctors appointment and showed up once for the first tumor removal.
J comes over and starts telling me everything about LO's health. All her information came from C's Doctor who have NEVER even seen LO in a picture let alone know his health information. I become frustrated because all the information she was given is wrong - but of course the doctor told her so it is correct and I have been lying since day 1.
I stated that she went to a doctor who has never seen LO , and although the information might be true for C it isn't true for LO.
Anyways of course she got ticked up, and started making FB posts about me and how I never include them in things. OH BD and I aren't together and he doesn't see LO.
Anyways, I did kind of snap at her a bit and asked her to leave my house and come back when she could be respectful.
I do everything for LO, attend every appointment and bring in outside help for him. Day in and day out , it's me. I stay in the hospital with him for weeks on end, and they dont even visit.
You poor thing, I can only imagine how frustrating that is for you. I was very lucky that, although my BD and i don't get along all the time, his mother is very supportive. It's amazing how people get carried away with something they think is right. I once met a boy of 19 who was convinced you could get pregnant from oral sex- something his dad had told him. Sigh. Well, I wish you luck!