So over this relationship.

I know I've been bitching alot lately but I have no one else to bitch to. So our bedroom is a disaster there is no room for anything 3 people living in a small room is difficult. There is clothes and toys everywhere and SO won't help me clean. He just told me if I don't clean the whole room I can pack my smurf and get the smurf out tonight. I'm seriously considering it. I get no help and this whole house hates me! I give up.

Screw him! You don't deserve that crap. I'd leave his ass. And that horrible household.

Quoting Addisons mama  :" I know I've been bitching alot lately but I have no one else to bitch to. So our bedroom is a disaster ... [snip!] ... my smurf and get the smurf out tonight. I'm seriously considering it. I get no help and this whole house hates me! I give up."

Leave. What a douche.

I'd leave. Smurf that.

If my DH said something like that to me over a mess I would leave.

Do you have somewhere to go? If so, leave. Seriously.

Pack up and go. What a smurf.

Do you both work?
If he works and you dont, I'd think he has every right to say that.
If not... He's just an ass


Buy honestly is ONE ROOM that hard to clean up?

I'd pack up and go.

Quoting MunchkinWrangler:" Do you both work? If he works and you dont, I'd think he has every right to say that. If not... He's just an ass Buy honestly is ONE ROOM that hard to clean up?"

When there's no where to put anything, yet it is.

I work he doesn't but he has a vehicle and I don't because he sold it. I'll post pics of the mess he left me to clean by myself.

<blockquote><b>Quoting MunchkinWrangler:</b>" Do you both work? If he works and you dont, I'd think he has every right to say that. If not... He's just an ass Buy honestly is ONE ROOM that hard to clean up?"</blockquote>



It woouldnt kill him to help clean regardless of who works and who doesn't. He lives there too so it's only fair that he helps every once in awhile. It's one room. It can't be that hard to help.

I wouldn't leave, but I would kick him out.

Quoting MunchkinWrangler:" Do you both work? If he works and you dont, I'd think he has every right to say that. If not... He's just an ass Buy honestly is ONE ROOM that hard to clean up?"

I don't care who works and who doesn't, that's not how you talk to your partner.

Quoting Addisons mama  :" I work he doesn't but he has a vehicle and I don't because he sold it. I'll post pics of the mess he left me to clean by myself."

then he should be cleaning and I would tell him just that. Either he can get a full time job or he can clean while you work.