re: So over this relationship.

Quoting ❥Charli:"   wth is tldr? LOL"

too long, didn't read

Quoting Addisons mama  :" Smurf you. Live my life for a week. And deal with everything I have to then come smurfing talk to me. You were the first to jump my smurf with out reading the fact that he dumped it all out"

Sorry that you are going through a hard time, but just know when you look at your child that they are what matters most. These people are just insensitive. I don't understand how people can be so rude in this world. Just keep your head up, take care of the mess and child, and find a way to get rid of that smurf.

Quoting Jas ♥:" too long, didn't read"

oooo LOL
sorry, didn't know that one. Thats the first time I've seen that...

Wow, I hope y'all know what karma is. Cause it's going to bite all of y'all in the ass! Good luck to the original poster. And for the rest of y'all, go smurf yourselves you pieces of smurf.

Do you have family you can stay with OP? You sound very unhappy some time apart might be the best thing.

Quoting Andraya DeCouto:" Wow, I hope y'all know what karma is. Cause it's going to bite all of y'all in the ass! Good luck to the original poster. And for the rest of y'all, go smurf yourselves you pieces of smurf. "

wah wah wah

Quoting Andraya DeCouto:" Wow, I hope y'all know what karma is. Cause it's going to bite all of y'all in the ass! Good luck to the original poster. And for the rest of y'all, go smurf yourselves you pieces of smurf. "

now that we have your advice, you can have mine. Grow the smurf up and stop being a little whinny bitch because someone doesn't agree with you. You say you don't care what we say to you, but you do. If you didn't, you wouldn't have your panties in a wad over something someone said over the internet. LOL. FFS if you don't like it just leave already! Cafemom would be better for you

<blockquote><b>Quoting misanthrope:</b>" Do you have family you can stay with OP? You sound very unhappy some time apart might be the best thing."</blockquote>




No. I'm going to a shelter Friday after I buy my car for $500. I'm doing what I can but this smurf kills me! I'm seconds from saying smurf it all.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Addisons mama  :</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting misanthrope:</b>" Do you have family you can stay with OP? You ... [snip!] ... a shelter Friday after I buy my car for $500. I'm doing what I can but this smurf kills me! I'm seconds from saying smurf it all."</blockquote>




Best of luck. Until then I would just clean it up and do your best to avoid him so you don't fight with your daughter around.

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These work great. You can't really man handle them because the plastic can split but they do work. Wash the clothes, separate them according to seasons and store what you don't wear away. Throw away anything you really don't need.

I would log off of BG, for real. You sound like an emotional mess right now, and reading the negativity and name calling couldn't possibly be helpful.

There are some good points though, get your thoughts together and handle that smurf. Do it because you deserve happiness.

Quoting ❥Charli:" this post is just all kinds of sad.... OP, save money and move to your own house. that way you will ... [snip!] ... reason they see fit. Either way, that room still needs to be clean. and it don't sound like your SO is going to do it  "

  agreed.

Sorry that you are going through so much. Totes w/ lids are gonna be your bestfriend. We moved into a smaller house last year and I have zero room for anything so I had to buy like 7 totes. My king size bed takes up most my bedroom with like 2ft walking space, it sucks we are hoping to move in May. Your SO was so wrong for what he said to you, it would never have gotten messy if he was picking up, smurf if you are working and he is home, his ass needs to be cleaning but since he hasn't you have no choice but to clean it yourself, for the sake of your child.

Good luck OP, hope things get better for you!  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jas ♥:</b>" "</blockquote>




 

That's smurf. She needs to clean and he needs too.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Andraya DeCouto:</b>" I don't need someone to come at me! I never did anything wrong to you, so stop taking your dumb hormonal ass out on me, stupid smurf!"</blockquote>




Wow...  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jas ♥:</b>" I honestly don't blame him either. She's a SAHM, there's no reason for her to not be able to keep up ... [snip!] ... exactly is OP complaining about when she says he doesn't help her. Help her with WHAT? Obviously, she doesn't clean either."</blockquote>




I thought she said she works and he doesn't?