re: So over this relationship.

Quoting Addisons mama  :" Here's our bed. http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a351/lifessmurfup666/9DB85E9A-3795-4DCF-A060-832D2E ... [snip!] ... the closet but he threw a fit and dumped out everything and threw them. It's mostly clean clothes but we have no room at all."

Clean your damn room. Seriously. I have two toddlers and puppy and my townhouse doesn't look anything like that. You have ONE room to clean. Stop being such a lazy slob.

Quoting Just Ames:" This is smurfing sad. What kind of example are y'all setting for your LO? This smurf didn't happen over night."

 

That's fed up! Leave that piece of s***! And I don't care if he was the one working, because obviously he would still make a mess. I'm sorry that's crap! And you should leave so he can deal with the mess! If he hates it so bad tell him stop being a lazy f*** and get off his fat a** and clean it himself.

Quoting MunchkinWrangler:" Agreed. Smurf, my husband just leaves his boots on the floor and I pick them up... Worst case scenario ... [snip!] ... Worst case scenario we have an overflowing laundry basket... IN THE BASKET. That's just nasty. I mean... the child's BED.. WTF?"

 

Quoting MunchkinWrangler:" Agreed. Smurf, my husband just leaves his boots on the floor and I pick them up... Worst case scenario ... [snip!] ... Worst case scenario we have an overflowing laundry basket... IN THE BASKET. That's just nasty. I mean... the child's BED.. WTF?"

Yeah, I am floored. At first I feel bad for the OP but she has let it get bad herself too and now they're fighting over the mess like children all the while their LO is living in horrid conditions.

AND I see you on BG all the time. You're lazy. Get the cleanin'.

Somebody link the pictures?


And OP suck it up and clean it. It's your responsibility as a mother to make sure your child isn't living I. Filth whether or not your SO wants to help

Quoting MunchkinWrangler:" Agreed. Smurf, my husband just leaves his boots on the floor and I pick them up... Worst case scenario ... [snip!] ... Worst case scenario we have an overflowing laundry basket... IN THE BASKET. That's just nasty. I mean... the child's BED.. WTF?"

We do that too but that's really it. DH and I both work and we both pick up around the house daily. I cannot stand to go to bed with it messy.

I'd leave. That's BS! A relationship should be 50/50. I work from home and hubby outside the home but we generally share the duties. I clean a bit more b/c I'm home but he helps a lot too.

Quoting Andraya DeCouto:" That's fed up! Leave that piece of s***! And I don't care if he was the one working, because obviously ... [snip!] ... he can deal with the mess! If he hates it so bad tell him stop being a lazy f*** and get off his fat a** and clean it himself."

Your excessive use of ! is really annoying ! especially since you don't know what you're talking about !

Quoting Just Ames:" This is smurfing sad. What kind of example are y'all setting for your LO? This smurf didn't happen over night."

 

Quoting Just Ames:" This is smurfing sad. What kind of example are y'all setting for your LO? This smurf didn't happen over night."

Agreed.   Jesus christ.

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Well, that breaks my heart.

OP, I hope you read all of this, take a step back and really look around you. Clean up that 1 bedroom you have to keep clean and do what's best for your LO. Save money, do what you have to do to care and provide for her and don't allow her to live in filth and think that that is all OK.