re: So over this relationship.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" Coming from another pregnant person, that makes you the retard  "</blockquote>




Didn't even notice shes pregnant! Lol

Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" Coming from another pregnant person, that makes you the retard  "</blockquote> Didn't even notice shes pregnant! Lol"

Due in May. She can call me huge but her day is coming. LMAO

<blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" Due in May. She can call me huge but her day is coming. LMAO"</blockquote>



Lmao! I don't think you're huge at all

Quoting The (super kinky) Master:" I think its kind of cruel that everyone is calling the OP names. 5 years ago I was diagnosed with several ... [snip!] ... has gone through it. I think people should stop being so harsh to the OP and offer some support and encouragement instead."

I really cannot stand how posts always turn into a mental disorder of some type. She would have stated from the get go if that was the case with her. While I don't agree with insulting her, it doesn't disregard that instead of complaining on BG about him not helping, just clean it up then talk later. She says her LO doesn't live in all that. Fine. But clearly she is on top of it all in the pictures.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" I really cannot stand how posts always turn into a mental disorder of some type. She would have stated ... [snip!] ... it up then talk later. She says her LO doesn't live in all that. Fine. But clearly she is on top of it all in the pictures. "</blockquote>




I do agree with this. She would have mentioned it in the OP

Quoting Just Ames:" I really cannot stand how posts always turn into a mental disorder of some type. She would have stated ... [snip!] ... it up then talk later. She says her LO doesn't live in all that. Fine. But clearly she is on top of it all in the pictures. "

agree.
we all got issues. suck it up, take a pill, and clean that landfill of a room.
ffs.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Blaine Edwards:</b>" agree. we all got issues. suck it up, take a pill, and clean that landfill of a room. ffs."</blockquote>




Sometimes like with me pills don't help. Like I've said I try and try but get panic attacks. But also she would have mentioned it in the OP if this is the case.

I think that they both need to clean. Yes he's home but its not just his mess.

If he dumped everything out in a hissy fit why didn't you say so in the first place? That would be a huge part of my bitching if I were in that situation, I wouldn't just post the room was a mess and he refused to help. I'd say the room was a mess because he threw a hissy fit and dumped clothing out everywhere. It just seems really odd to me that you would leave out that HUGE important detail in the whole story until later on.

I would honestly look into counseling with SO or finding a roommate/family to live with for a little.
He probably is feeling less than if you are working and he isn't, my own husband had huge issues and went into a deep depression. Depending on your attitude it could be agitating the problem hence him flipping out.
It sure as hell doesn't excuse his behavior but I personally would sort all of my clothe and child's clothes, get them organized possible get rid of some. I would put his stuff in a bin to organize himself, this would clean a lot of that clutter out.

A lot of times we will flip out on someone if they're talking down to us and lets face it that we all get on a soapbox when we feel we're in the right and will talk down to those who need to see 'our way'. He has no right to act like a belligerent five year old but you may need to step back and evaluate how you speak to him and if that a trigger.

It is horrible and absurd how people behave on the internet. I mean really - offer some advice. But repremanding someone and insulting them? How childish and lame.

OP, maybe you can get a storage unit. We have way too much smurf too. We have a house. I manage to keep it clean. But I had to get a lot of those big plastic storage bins (can find them at Walmart or Target) to keep some stuff in because I just can't deal with the clutter. They are helpful and you can really compact a lot of your stuff and get things organized (holiday stuff, stuff for when kids are older, winter/summer clothes, etc.)

Good luck, sorry the women on here can be such bitches. Srsly.

im a little late to this thread but that room looks like its been in that state for awhile. Even if he just threw all the clothes everywhere that doesnt explain why theres no sheets on the beds (not that i seen at least). First of all you guys need to go through your clothes & get rid of some. Second is there anywhere else you can store off season clothes? I have large plastic totes/tubs that i keep my off season clothes in & clothes that LO doesnt fit yet, that i keep in the garage. Also those space saver bags (that you vacuum the air out of so theyre almost flat) work wonders. I keep clothes that i dont wear very much in these. Lastly you guys both need to try to keep the room cleaned. I know you said the clothes were clean but if theyre not LO could get scabies from playing/laying in dirty clothes that have been sitting

I know this is old but WHAT THE SmUrf!

Quoting Shibby.:" I know this is old but WHAT THE SmUrf!"

      
This.
I may be late, but still.
Holy smurf OP.
I know how it feels to have only one bedroom to live in, because DH, DD, and I are in that situation right now. But there's a difference between having a lot of smurf, and being smurfing disgusting.
Throw some crap away!  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Andraya DeCouto:</b>" Wow, I hope y'all know what karma is. Cause it's going to bite all of y'all in the ass! Good luck to the original poster. And for the rest of y'all, go smurf yourselves you pieces of smurf. "</blockquote>




You don't seem to either. It's the cosmic principle according to which each person is rewarded or punished in one incarnation according to that person's deeds in the previous incarnation.

Karma happens in the next life   so it's not going to bite them in that ass.

Quoting Brink:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Andraya DeCouto:</b>" Wow, I hope y'all know what karma is. ... [snip!] ... person's deeds in the previous incarnation. Karma happens in the next life   so it's not going to bite them in that ass."

Depends which religion you're talking about.
Either way, Karma doesn't exist IMO.