re: So over this relationship.

Quoting Addisons mama  :" I work he doesn't but he has a vehicle and I don't because he sold it. I'll post pics of the mess he left me to clean by myself."

Damn  

Ats <blockquote><b>Quoting MunchkinWrangler:</b>" Do you both work? If he works and you dont, I'd think he has every right to say that. If not... He's just an ass Buy honestly is ONE ROOM that hard to clean up?"</blockquote>




That's not the point. The fact of the matter is the way he talked to her and gave her a choice to clean it all of gtfo.   i'de pack my smurf and bounce. With the room dirty as smurf. I'de probably mess it up more for the way he spoke to me.

Here's our bed. http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a351/lifessmurfup666/9DB85E9A-3795-4DCF-A060-832D2EEE1F84-259-0000001053A362B4.jpg


The foot of the bed and DD and my dresser.
http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a351/lifessmurfup666/8E8EE9F5-4199-4634-A1D9-5A9AA5A69C07-259-0000001062706C62.jpg

DDs bed
http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a351/lifessmurfup666/D8D69289-CE3B-425F-AE28-548CBF4D709D-259-0000001074F5E490.jpg

The floor next to our bed
http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a351/lifessmurfup666/37D5BB13-9A06-47F2-9ADF-C6640CCF910F-259-0000001087106D0D.jpg

Floor again
http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a351/lifessmurfup666/AB4818D0-1569-495C-A77C-734E7D152DF8-259-000000109BA4546F.jpg

And it is usually pushed up against the closet but he threw a fit and dumped out everything and threw them. It's mostly clean clothes but we have no room at all.

Quoting Mama to William + 1:" I don't care who works and who doesn't, that's not how you talk to your partner."

we are now aware that she works... But honestly if he worked all day and she was home getting nothing done, I'd think he has every right to be pissed and kick her out! My husband and I both work but opposed to my 40 hours a week, he works 60 MIN. I clean the house. Of course he'd never tell me to,but I do. I owe that to him as I'm home when he's working. If I didn't work at all and I left our house a mess day in and day out I would deserve any ass chewing. Its lazy.

Quoting Addisons mama  :" Here's our bed. http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a351/lifessmurfup666/9DB85E9A-3795-4DCF-A060-832D2E ... [snip!] ... the closet but he threw a fit and dumped out everything and threw them. It's mostly clean clothes but we have no room at all."

Wow. Maybe you guys should get rid of some stuff?

He doesn't clean anything ever and I could make this room spotless tonight and tomorrow it would be the same. He doesn't care everyone in this house expects me to do all the cleaning by myself.

Quoting Addisons mama  :" Here's our bed. http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a351/lifessmurfup666/9DB85E9A-3795-4DCF-A060-832D2E ... [snip!] ... the closet but he threw a fit and dumped out everything and threw them. It's mostly clean clothes but we have no room at all."

Holy smurf, that's a mess. He needs to help, that's bullsmurf!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Addisons mama  :</b>" Here's our bed. http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a351/lifessmurfup666/9DB85E9A-3795-4DCF-A060-832D2E ... [snip!] ... the closet but he threw a fit and dumped out everything and threw them. It's mostly clean clothes but we have no room at all."</blockquote>




I can't see them.

I would leave....he is treating you like crap.

OT but who is in the Corps in your family? Well, sorta on topic. Just watch where I go with this depending on the answer.

Quoting Addisons mama  :" Here's our bed. http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a351/lifessmurfup666/9DB85E9A-3795-4DCF-A060-832D2E ... [snip!] ... the closet but he threw a fit and dumped out everything and threw them. It's mostly clean clothes but we have no room at all."

Uhm.. honestly... I don't know what to say to you.
First of all.. that's disgusting and I hope to god your child doesn't sleep in that bed.
Second... do you really need all that smurf? Honestly, it all looks like a load of crap to me.

Third... is this stuff strewn all over the room HIS or is it yours and your daughters? Maybe are you hoarding all this crap and he's pissed because he just wants it all cleaned out of the room?

That's just gross and I could never let my child be living in those conditions. If my SO wasn't cleaning that smurf would have been cleaned up, like yesterday, and his ass would be out. That is no way for a child to be sleeping.

Quoting Addisons mama  :" Here's our bed. http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a351/lifessmurfup666/9DB85E9A-3795-4DCF-A060-832D2E ... [snip!] ... the closet but he threw a fit and dumped out everything and threw them. It's mostly clean clothes but we have no room at all."

This is smurfing sad.
What kind of example are y'all setting for your LO? This smurf didn't happen over night.

That is awful... Wtf I could never ever live like that.. Quit bitching and just clean it. I would never let my child live in that mess.

Quoting Just Ames:" This is smurfing sad. What kind of example are y'all setting for your LO? This smurf didn't happen over night."

Agreed.
Smurf, my husband just leaves his boots on the floor and I pick them up...
Worst case scenario we have an overflowing laundry basket... IN THE BASKET. That's just nasty. I mean... the child's BED.. WTF?

OP I can't see the pictures, but why would you allow your child to live in filth?