Quoting Tarynosaurus Rex:" It's the nature of the lifestyle. Men obviously do not see women as equal in that lifestyle if women ... [snip!] ... if women are not also allowed to take on multiple husbands, so no you cannot have that type of relationship without sexism."
I 100% disagree. Look, the idea of feminism is to give women the choice to do as they please. If they WANT to be in a plural marriage, why is that suddenly oppressive? Similarly, a woman who commits willingly to being in a 24/7 Dom/sub relationship isn't being oppressed. She's living her life as she CHOOSES because she is given the choice.
Do I agree with people being forced into these things? Of course not! But I think some people are so caught up on what they feel life should be that they go so far as to start taking womens rights away.
In Islam many woman CHOOSE to stay covered. If they are not forced to do so, then it is their choice and no matter if I'd choose it, I support wholeheartedly their ability to make that choice.
How are you any better? You are so worried about women being oppressed that YOU turn around and "oppress" them by assuming they are unable to make their own choices. By putting them and their CHOSEN lifestyle down. How does that extreme help women any more then an extreme that does not allow them NOT to make a choice? You allow them no choice either by your judgement.