Quoting A&J. ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting martinez♥:</b>" Have you tried talking about it? If there's ... [snip!] ... He tells me I'm being "crazy" He won't acknowledge that anything is different between us... And it has been for weeks now."
DH and I went through a situation like that recently. Since like last year he was totally aloof. It actually felt like whenever I tried to be sweet or loving or anything it was annoying so I just started shutting down. Then in March I talked to him and I gave him my wedding ring and told him I was done, that I just couldn't take it. I loved him but I didn't want to be in a relationship like this. I was gone for a few days but it really broke him and made him realize I was serious. He started going to church for the first time in his life and asked me to go to counseling with him (when I'd asked him countless times before and he'd flat out refused and told me how dumb I was being, that we weren't dating anymore and things were obviously going to be different). We got back together in April and since then he's really changed. If he starts acting aloof again all I have to do is sit and tell him.
I feel like if you've tried talking, what else can you do? Either accept things the way they are and learn to adjust or you leave and find happiness however you can. I'm not the kind of person who can settle for an unhappy marriage.