Okay...so this guy I am talking too...he's a really sweet guy, we've been talking for a while. ( only kissed twice ).

Well, he says he's not ready for a relationship with me, because..he needs to see if there is any physical attraction ( meaning sex ).

I haven't been in a serious relationship in a while.

But, do you think there needs to be physical attraction, for a relationship ?

Please don't laugh...I really don't know.

I think it's important, yes. Unless you plan on having a relationship without sex.

It sounds like he's looking for an excuse to get in your pants  

I wouldn't think you would have to have sex with someone for there to be physical attraction. So he wants to see how good you are in bed? That doesn't sound right.

I don't think so, but I've been dating SO for almost 8 weeks now and we've only had sex a handful of times. He would rather hang out and discuss current events and politics than get down and dirty and that's why I really like him.

Physical attraction doesnt equal sex in my book.

Physical Attraction..Yes.
Sexual Compatibility to a sufficient level is Not the START of a Relationship.

You usually don't have sex with someone unless you're physically attracted.. but you don't need to have sex to know this. Sounds like he wants a free pass to get laid.

I think there does have be be physical attraction. Without it you are just friends because who wants to have kiss, have sex, ect with someone they aren't attracted to? However, physical attraction usually happens fast if there is going to be any. If he has to wait to see if he is attracted to you chance are he won't be.

Quoting wigglewaddle:" You usually don't have sex with someone unless you're physically attracted.. but you don't need to have sex to know this. Sounds like he wants a free pass to get laid."

  

I agree with the other ladies, man is definitely just looking for an excuse to get laid. You don't need to have sex to know if you're physically attracted to someone, are his eyes broken? lol

Quoting wigglewaddle:" You usually don't have sex with someone unless you're physically attracted.. but you don't need to have sex to know this. Sounds like he wants a free pass to get laid."

 

I agree with the other ladies. It sounds like he's just trying to get into your pants.

Awww..really ?

Sadly, I agree with everyone else.  

Physical attraction is thinking someone is cute, not how good they are in bed. Physical attraction should be just about instant.


I'm starting to believe the things I hear about POF, though.   The guy I'm "dating" is all about sex   But, I just don't want to make myself believe it and stop talking to him