Quoting jordan.ℓeigh✿:" I've called DH a little girl in an argument before, he got pretty mad."
Ever hear guys insult each other? I hang out mostly with guys, even on the net so I see it all the time. Most of it is female-related stuff. "quit being a little bitch" "you pussy" "smurf" [from the idea that being gay feminizes a man] "smurf" [especially if you live in the UK
] "smurfer" "your girlfriend wears the pants" all kinds of crap like that
It's very telling about the latent sexism we still have in our culture.
Attacking their sexual performance can sometimes also be as bad, if they are insecure about it.