re: What do you ladies think?

Quoting The (super kinky) Master:" I might be a bit biased here from family experience (my aunts first husband had two other children to ... [snip!] ... I don't believe cheating is ever a mistake, not unless he fell over and his dick slipped in her vagina constantly for a month."

 

Once? Maybe. But it went on for a month. He knew exactly what he was doing.

Quoting sταrry skies:"   Once? Maybe. But it went on for a month. He knew exactly what he was doing."

This! and he gave a dumb reason to get her out the house, he had it planned out, not only that but she was pregnant with his son, made her go back to her mom's house... i'm not saying he isnt sorry but OP got rite back with him after he did this to her which is the worst thing to do in my opinion from experience its kind of like getting back with a man who hit you, they got away with it once and most likely they will do it again.

Everything that has been posted on here is something that I have thought myself. I did go back to fast for what I planned but it was more for my son that me. I know this sounds crazy but if we are not in the same house my son will not sleep. When we are at my parents he sleeps maybe an hour at a time. When we are at his dads he will sleep for up to 6 hours. Unless one of us is not there then he goes back to 1 hour naps. Its crazy but it almost feels like my son is trying to bring us together. As far as my OP SO has constantly been calling it our house now even corrected himself. Example last night my sister and BIL were over and me and SO lost in monopoly. SO was like how can they come in my house, I mean our house and beat us. So I mean really I feel like he is trying but I don't trust him. I'm going to try to build trust in him again but right now I can't. UGH! I just want this to be fixed, I wish I could see the future to know if I'm trying to fix something that can't be fixed or if it will work out.

Sweety you need to take a big step back, have a real good look at him, think about who he is as a person.
Maybe write a list of pros and cons about him.
Then decide if he as a human being deserves another chance.
Not just for the cheating, but for every thing about him.
My honest opinion would be to leave, even if that means breaking your own heart.