Quoting bettymunroe:" I'd lay a complaint or confront her personally. You dont have to be aggressive or OTT just say something ... [snip!] ... it looked bad, since I couldn't get to the doctor over the holiday period. I was really offended when you implied it was burn""
Quoting bbbt:" Well I don't think you need to find another daycare, unless you feel really uncomfortable going back ... [snip!] ... obviously does care about your kid. But to stop any further accusations, I'd bring in the doctor's note that said it's a rash. "I really don't want to change, it IS an excellent daycare.
Quoting Vodka Knockers:" I really don't want to change, it IS an excellent daycare. The security there is top notch. Locked doors, ... [snip!] ... don't want this to ever happen again. I reckon I will call the doctor tomorrow and get a note faxed to me and give it to her."
Quoting Michael Westen:" Well considering they arent supposed to confront the parent in the first place, that was out of line."
Quoting coℓton's mama. «3:" <blockquote><b>Quoting bbbt:</b>" I'd be quick to judge someone I thought was burning ... [snip!] ... she hurt her child. She's a bitch for coming accross as just that...a bitch, instead of being more professional about it."
Quoting bbbt:" I'm sure the note will set everything straight. Sorry this happened. She probably just overreacted and wasn't sure what to do. Maybe she's never seen a really bad rash before. "Heh, apparently lol.
Quoting Naocorn:" As it perpetuates the cycle of abuse to confront the parent... and as a daycare director she is suppose to take abuse classes...."
Quoting Vodka Knockers:" Heh, apparently lol. I'd never really seen one like LO's before since I've not been around a lot of kids ... [snip!] ... running that daycare for around 20 years. Maybe she just hasn't been changing a lot of diapers since she started running it."
Quoting Michael Westen:" Yep! And if she was that concerned she should have went to the authorities first. Not given a chance ... [snip!] ... first. Not given a chance to beat the kid (assuming she was guilty) between the confrontation and when she called the police."That's how I figured it worked.
Quoting Vodka Knockers:" That's how I figured it worked. I mean, if you seriously thought someone was harming their child, why ... [snip!] ... me. Well, CPS can come out here, check out my home, check out my kid, whatever they need to do. Absolutely nothing to hide."
Quoting bbbt:" Oh, she's older? Lol, that explains it. Old people can be so stuck in their way that everything they ... [snip!] ... blue. She said it was bruised and that someone was definitely abusing him. I was like um no, he's just been circumcised. "Oh wooooooow. That's extreme lol.
Quoting bbbt:" Hmmm, maybe she thought it was a burn, but was accidental? "It is possible that maybe she thought it was accidental and was just being super condescending about it. Just the way she was acting though made it feel like she expected me to say, if it was a burn and accidental, "OH YEAH. Yeah, we were drinking and smoking crack around a bon fire, I thought it'd be super cool to watch the kid fly and he hit a burning stick. LOL It was cool though."