re: 15 and pregnant!

Quoting October2011:" Youve had 2 miscarriages and now ur pregnant again.. Wow you are smurfing stupid. I'm sorry..but 15? yeah..Goodluck ... [snip!] ... poor parents will have to raise another baby because you wanna be cute and pregnant and have a trophy child. you have no idea."

lol lol lol

Tell you're parents, tell them now so they wont be hurt/mad in the future when you're
further along. Just hand you're mom a picture of you're US. Thats what i did.
Good luck OP

<blockquote><b>Quoting October2011:</b>" Youve had 2 miscarriages and now ur pregnant again.. Wow you are smurfing stupid. I'm sorry..but 15? yeah..Goodluck ... [snip!] ... poor parents will have to raise another baby because you wanna be cute and pregnant and have a trophy child. you have no idea."</blockquote>




And you're 23, no one is actually ready for a kid. Yeah, is immature to think its OKAY to,get pregnant at a young age, but some teens (like me and many others) have been through enough in life to understand what reality is. I'm not sticking up for anyone but this is supposed to new a supportive site. Obviously you're the one acting childish. If she's not mature enough too raise a kid, let her figure it out. She's in a soft time right now and definitely doesn't need to be hearing that.

Quoting PhoenixLilith:" <blockquote><b>Quoting October2011:</b>" Youve had 2 miscarriages and now ur pregnant ... [snip!] ... enough too raise a kid, let her figure it out. She's in a soft time right now and definitely doesn't need to be hearing that."

Come back and talk to me after you have your baby because you honey bun have no idea either.. I'm not trying to be a bitch...think of it as tough love. you dont know what its like to raise a child, correct? It's sad when teens dont learn or actually try to have a baby and then just struggle for years. Motherhood is wonderful...but when youre struggling and can't provide what you want to provide your child with and are lonely, no friends...then you'll be like oh..i get it.

<blockquote><b>Quoting October2011:</b>" Come back and talk to me after you have your baby because you honey bun have no idea either.. I'm not ... [snip!] ... and can't provide what you want to provide your child with and are lonely, no friends...then you'll be like oh..i get it."</blockquote>




I understand, I'm not trying to say its going to be easy. I can support my child, and i do know what its like to raise a child. I'm not gonna get into it, but its extremely hard. No disrespect to what you're trying to say, cause i understand fully.

<blockquote><b>Quoting PhoenixLilith:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting October2011:</b>" Come back and talk to me after you have your ... [snip!] ... child. I'm not gonna get into it, but its extremely hard. No disrespect to what you're trying to say, cause i understand fully."</blockquote>




Not judging and really don't have time to get into anything but how at 14 are you able to provide for your baby?

<blockquote><b>Quoting HopingforaMiracle:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting PhoenixLilith:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting October2011:</b>" ... [snip!] ... Not judging and really don't have time to get into anything but how at 14 are you able to provide for your baby?"</blockquote>

Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting PhoenixLilith:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting October2011:</b>" ... [snip!] ... Not judging and really don't have time to get into anything but how at 14 are you able to provide for your baby?"

yes. i'd love to know that as well..and babysitting family doesnt count.

<blockquote><b>Quoting HopingforaMiracle:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting PhoenixLilith:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting October2011:</b>" ... [snip!] ... Not judging and really don't have time to get into anything but how at 14 are you able to provide for your baby?"</blockquote>




I have a very wealthy family, and the father of my child makes a God amount of money.

<blockquote><b>Quoting October2011:</b>" yes. i'd love to know that as well..and babysitting family doesnt count. "</blockquote>




Yep

<blockquote><b>Quoting PhoenixLilith:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting HopingforaMiracle:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting PhoenixLilith:</b>" ... [snip!] ... for your baby?"</blockquote> I have a very wealthy family, and the father of my child makes a God amount of money."</blockquote>


Family doesn't count. And what if he leaves? I'm assuming he's 15-17 if he's not then you have bigger issues than money

Quoting PhoenixLilith:" <blockquote><b>Quoting HopingforaMiracle:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting PhoenixLilith:</b>" ... [snip!] ... for your baby?"</blockquote> I have a very wealthy family, and the father of my child makes a God amount of money."

being wealthy has nothing to do with RAISING a child. sure money makes things easier...I think she asked how YOU know what its like to raise a child.

<blockquote><b>Quoting October2011:</b>" yes. i'd love to know that as well..and babysitting family doesnt count. "</blockquote>



Ha, should i write my whole life story or something? I'm not trying to start something but I'm just trying to say, some peope actually do make it.

<blockquote><b>Quoting PhoenixLilith:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting October2011:</b>" yes. i'd love to know that as well..and ... [snip!] ... my whole life story or something? I'm not trying to start something but I'm just trying to say, some peope actually do make it."</blockquote>



YOU put it out there you are 14 and pregnant. I'm just honestly curious how you are going to provide for a baby. To rely on your parents and baby's father isn't a good plan to be honest. What if they stop supporting your baby but continue to support you? There's nothing illegal about that. What if he runs off? Like I said I'm assuming he is your age but younger than 17. And there's bigger issues if he is older. Such as he could get arrested.

Quoting PhoenixLilith:" <blockquote><b>Quoting October2011:</b>" yes. i'd love to know that as well..and ... [snip!] ... my whole life story or something? I'm not trying to start something but I'm just trying to say, some peope actually do make it."

I never said you werent gonna make it. I believe you will...because you are a mom now..you have no choice really. You stated that you know what its like to raise a child. and i beg to differ. To be soley responsible for the entire wellbeing of an individual 24/7..making all their life's decisions...i dont think so.