re: very pissed off (vent)

he will never budge he's just going to be a fat bastard for the rest of his life, i do love him, but to love someone like that you gotta be tough to succeed

Quoting MyPurrrtyBabies:" I guess my mom just REALLY needs to stop letting him mooch off her so much bc as long as she allows ... [snip!] ... to take care of his needs but she has a hard time telling him no and I understand but she has to draw the line somewhere. "

Oh wait you're not OP lol
Well, BOTH of you need to have talks with your moms!

Your mom should put a stop to it, if she keeps giving and allowing it he's going to just take and be happy, my bro is the same way, I live at home with my parents I pay 400 $ a month for rent and my brother pays nothing he is a hardworking man though admit but u can say not for the household -___- it does get me mad though seeing as I have to pay for bills, buy my son things he need, diapers wipes cloth all the nccesities and pay rent I don't mind I LOVE helping my parents out and plus I live here so it's only fair, and watching my bro buying himself shoes cloth go out with is friends ughhh

Quoting Perfectly Imperfect  :" Your mom should put a stop to it, if she keeps giving and allowing it he's going to just take and be ... [snip!] ... parents out and plus I live here so it's only fair, and watching my bro buying himself shoes cloth go out with is friends ughhh"

i can tell you know where i'm coming from, my bro is a waste of space to me

Quoting Will☮Creedence:" Basically my point was that at his age if they make his life easy he's not going to budge. As soon as ... [snip!] ... for video games, nobody to do his laundry, strict rules etc he will realize he needs to get off his ass and change his life."

  exactly!!!

but I can't tell my Mom anything  

Quoting Will☮Creedence:" Oh wait you're not OP lol Well, BOTH of you need to have talks with your moms!"

I know and I have many, many times BUT I can't force her to listen to me. It'll happen when she is FINALLY fed up I guess.

and lol that has happened to me too in a thread when OP and another person had the same thing going on and then I got confused to who I was talking too.

Quoting MyPurrrtyBabies:" I know and I have many, many times BUT I can't force her to listen to me. It'll happen when she is ... [snip!] ... to me too in a thread when OP and another person had the same thing going on and then I got confused to who I was talking too."

my mum is the same, she has this hige soft spot for him, i never had that soft spot with her