re: Just want people's opinions and no i will not be offended ev

I wouldn't do it. Getting involved with a husbands best friend is bad enough... A brother is worse.

Quoting Big'n:" <blockquote><b>Quoting NinaBonita:</b>" You are so correct but its been more then 5 ... [snip!] ... its been more then 5 yrs since me and the ex have had nothing to do with eachother."</blockquote> Still wouldn't do it."

Heck no. Say hello to awkward family get togethers.

I personally would never want my daughter to have an Uncle Step Dad...

Quoting ♡Sarah♡ + 2:" Never in a million years. Just walk away. WALK AWAY"

 

RUN away!

Quoting ♡Sarah♡ + 2:" Heck no. Say hello to awkward family get togethers."

  exactly.

Quoting NinaBonita:" You are so correct but its been more then 5 yrs since me and the ex have had nothing to do with eachother."

My point is, if you're madly in love with him and want to be with him the rest of your life, marriage, kids etc like he is THE ONE then I don't think you should throw that away just for your ex's feelings.
But if it's nothing serious like that then it's not worth it.

... Not an option ... Don't do it

Quoting InkDMomma:" That just sounds like the rest of your life is going to be nonstop drama. RUN!"

Good point but that could always be blocked out your life

Quoting NinaBonita:" Good point but that could always be blocked out your life"

so you're going to block out entire family events and stuff like that the rest of your child's life? for some dick?
yeah... not worth it at all.

Quoting Will☮Creedence:" My point is, if you're madly in love with him and want to be with him the rest of your life, marriage, ... [snip!] ... think you should throw that away just for your ex's feelings. But if it's nothing serious like that then it's not worth it."

Im loving your feedback sounds like every bit of what my family has given me and yes pretty much it has been serious and strong i could careless what the ex thinks or has to say it was his fault i left him i could never imagen myself in a situation like this but we cant control what life has to offer us only God knows why and everything happens for a reason

x Quoting NinaBonita:" Im loving your feedback sounds like every bit of what my family has given me and yes pretty much it ... [snip!] ... in a situation like this but we cant control what life has to offer us only God knows why and everything happens for a reason"

Have fun telling the kiddos their uncle is going to be their step daddy.



Yikes.

Quoting NinaBonita:" Im loving your feedback sounds like every bit of what my family has given me and yes pretty much it ... [snip!] ... in a situation like this but we cant control what life has to offer us only God knows why and everything happens for a reason"

What does this guy have to say about everything?

I don't live in Salem (days of our lives lol)and wouldn't want to have to explain to my kids how their brother is also their cousin.

I just wouldn't cross those boundaries.

<blockquote><b>Quoting InkDMomma:</b>" so you're going to block out entire family events and stuff like that the rest of your child's life? for some dick? yeah... not worth it at all."</blockquote>

!!!!!

Id definitely be more worried about the emotional health of the child from being put in this situation also.

Quoting InkDMomma:" so you're going to block out entire family events and stuff like that the rest of your child's life? for some dick? yeah... not worth it at all."

My kids have never had anything serious to do with that side of the family due to the fact that the father wasnt ready to be a real dad to them and because he would pick friends and alcohol over his kids so that will never be an issue and D*** has nothing to do about this!