Quoting heygirlheyyy♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting 624582:</b>" Why is leaving not an option? I couldn't handle ... [snip!] ... of leaving seriously because he knows I probably won't. And he's somewhat right, I have nothin without him and it sucks."
I can imagine that is hard. It would be one thing if my husband wasn't willing to be a "good" husband, but if he didn't show much interest in being a father to our son it would break my heart.
If I were you I'd continue to look for work, tuck away money, and keep looking for housing options. Even if, some how, your husband wises up it is always good to have a safety net. I'm really sorry that your daughter and you are going through this.