So ill b 34weeks tomorrow n I went into preterm labor was in the hispital from tuesday night till friday night they got my cintractions to calm down significantly thank god. I dialated 2cm n effaced 75% talk abiut scary. But now im supposed to b on bed rest n its nit really workn out I av no1 to help me with my 2yr old son n I still hav to get up and ckean n all that stuff idk wat to do. I get tired right away n never finish wat I srart its really dusteating and on top id it my son refuses to listen I live with my mom n sister but asking them to help is like pulling teeth. They litterally watched me struggke to carry a laundry basket from the room to the laundry room idk wat to do
You do not need to get up and clean. That stuff can wait. What's more important, a clean house or a healthy baby? Stay in bed. Rest. Get someone to help with your son. They don't put you on bed rest for no reason.
I would bring your mom to your next OB appointment and have the doctor explain exactly what you are and are not allowed to be doing and exactly what kind of help you need. Bedrest is hard, I've done a lot of it, but your house can wait. Eventually everyone else in the house will get tired of the mess and do something about it even if it isn't to the standard you would want.