re: Small penis

Quoting KNZ.:" There's people that say that?   I'm with you. "

Yes, ma'am...I cannot tell you how many times I have been told my way of thinking is "smurfed up" and is "whats wrong with relationships these days" because you know...sex shouldn't be an important part of a relationship and you should overlook it as a deal breaker, there are far more important things to focus on and if you put that much importance in sex then you really don't know what being in a real relationship is like.

Quoting Mama Rice:" <blockquote><b>Quoting KNZ.:</b>" ha, that would suck for him. "I really love you, ... [snip!] ... words "they are completely incompatible sexually and she is not the least bit interested in him sexually after their "hookup""."

I'd just let him down nicely then. I mean, be honest and say that he's great, ect, ect, but *insert reason she can't be in a relationship right now*.

I've been there before, and i just, couldn't.

Quoting iLL-Legal Alien:" Yes, ma'am...I cannot tell you how many times I have been told my way of thinking is "smurfed up" and ... [snip!] ... to focus on and if you put that much importance in sex then you really don't know what being in a real relationship is like."

Um, that is crazy talk  
Can't we just have it all? 
Really though-- great sex is what gets me through some of our hardest days/times, ha.

That really does have the potential to kill a relationship. That sucks  

Quoting KNZ.:" Um, that is crazy talk   Can't we just have it all?  Really though-- great sex is what gets me through some of our hardest days/times, ha. "

Right!?
DH and I can go weeks and have gone months without getting the chance to have sex and things get stressful and crappy...and then we finally get the chance to do it, and it's like an instant reconnection.

Quoting iLL-Legal Alien:" Right!? DH and I can go weeks and have gone months without getting the chance to have sex and things ... [snip!] ... sex and things get stressful and crappy...and then we finally get the chance to do it, and it's like an instant reconnection."

Exactly.
It only takes me a day or two to feel nuts with out sex, haha, so i don't know what i'd do if i was with someone i'm not sexually compatible with.

Quoting iLL-Legal Alien:" Yes, ma'am...I cannot tell you how many times I have been told my way of thinking is "smurfed up" and ... [snip!] ... to focus on and if you put that much importance in sex then you really don't know what being in a real relationship is like."

seriously?


guess im smurfed up then too.

haha

If sex weren't important to me at all then I might be able to handle it. You can kind of "teach" a guy to be a better kisser and about foreplay but having a small penis isn't really fixable. I did date a guy that was on the smaller side but he was pretty good at compensating for his size in other ways. Too bad he ended up being a complete douchebag. Personality goes way further than penis size.

If the kissing and foreplay could be remedied, sure. I couldn't care less about penis size. But then again, penis isn't really my thing.

Quoting jonah ruff:" You should tell him how much of a huge man he is ,if he thinks he is then drop the ball and tell him ... [snip!] ... up then advise him to give you anal sex if its not good than tell him to turn gay .if not fake it .than masturbate after sex"

wow, really?

Quoting jonah ruff:" You should tell him how much of a huge man he is ,if he thinks he is then drop the ball and tell him ... [snip!] ... up then advise him to give you anal sex if its not good than tell him to turn gay .if not fake it .than masturbate after sex"

a?

<blockquote><b>Quoting jonah ruff:</b>" You should tell him how much of a huge man he is ,if he thinks he is then drop the ball and tell him ... [snip!] ... up then advise him to give you anal sex if its not good than tell him to turn gay .if not fake it .than masturbate after sex"</blockquote>




You are on the wrong site for your bullsmurf.

Just my two cents from a male with a small penis. She should be honest & tell him she's is not into him, They've only been seeing each other a month you said? Sex is a big part of a relationship. She sounds like she won't be happy!! And yes a small penis is a valid reason to end a relationship it sounds mean but it's reality.

No. I couldnt. And i havent. There was a guy before DH. We work together. And ha been friends for a while. After a few dates. We did the deed. He wasnt a great kisser. And then there was the penis :/ he lasted about an hr. But i just had to pretend to be into it.


Then 2 days after that i went to hang out with my current DH. And man was he a firecracker in bed ;)

Nope, i would not stay.. Sorry!!