Quoting Tikaytasha:" well for starters, I never would have slept with him or talked to him again after the first time. what a dick head. "
And you probably "never would" have been with an abuser in the first place right?
You obviously have no knowledge of the cycles of abuse, both physically and psychologically; many people don't.
As a person and an adult, you should have some knowledge of the concept of empathy.
I'd really encourage you to try to a) either be empathetic or b) at least try not to be so blatantly unempathetic, in the future.