Worried... Kinda long... And tmi...

Like three weeks ago SO and I had sex, using a condom. And it kind of looked to me like some of his semen had leaked out of the top of it (I posted about it, I think) I took a pregnancy test like a week after (I don't know why I thought it would show that soon anyway) which was negative. Then like two days ago I posted on here that I passed some tissuey-dischargey stuff with blood in... And today I am running a fever and I have pretty bad abdominal cramps. I feel too unwell and in pain to even go to the doctors, unless I magically improve by morning (fingers crossed!). So all that's going through my head right now is that I might have actually been pregnant... I dunno. I don't know what to think. I'm probably overreacting and I am sorry if I sound like a tool but I can't help it. What should I do?

It sounds like you're over thinking it and freaking yourself out. It also sounds like your getting your period.

The first thing that comes to mind is possibly an ectopic pregnancy. You would probably need to go to the hospital now.

it sounds like a beginning of a period to me, i think you're gonna be menstrating soon if it hasnt already started

You need to relax! Don't worry about what ifs that haven't even begun to occur! If it's a miscarriage, you should know eventually. Chances are its just your period and you are hyping yourself up.

I already had my PP period... would I get another so soon? I don't normally get period symptoms or anything, not pre pregnancy anyway. Ahhhh why do I overthink things? :/

Your cycles and how your periods are can be completely different after having a baby. Try not to freak out

Okay thank you..