re: "Slut"

Quoting Smartass *TTC*:" I don't think so because I wear gray suits and pearls and I normally get judged as being "vintagy" lol"

haha I was just being sarcastic! But yeah, I've got my "classy outfits" that I wear for work, my "mom outfits" for everyday and my downright slutty outfits for SO  

I guess I'm a classy mommy slut!    

<blockquote><b>Quoting Harlot O'Scara:</b>" I think the point isn't to stop judging in general - the point is that there is an inequity in female ... [snip!] ... people wouldn't call women "sluts" if female sexuality were not considered a negative, shameful thing in our culture. "</blockquote>




I live in a very liberal area hell there is a nudist colony not far from my house. I don't hear slut, whore, etc like at all. I think some of it has to do with location.

Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" haha I was just being sarcastic! But yeah, I've got my "classy outfits" that I wear for work, my "mom ... [snip!] ... for work, my "mom outfits" for everyday and my downright slutty outfits for SO   I guess I'm a classy mommy slut!     "

Oh I like that! I personally don't care if girls call each others sluts or whores, it's just part of life. I am not worried about it, no one calls me a slut lol.

Come to think of it, when I was a slut no one called me a slut. I think I was a secret slut.

Quoting Silly Mily's Momma ♡:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Harlot O'Scara:</b>" ....Those are still all really stupid ... [snip!] ... what I'd she's breastfeeding their baby and the baby gets it? I just think its wrong and it can affect a bunch of people."

Diseases can be spread by people who have a small number of partners too. That is an issue of safe sex and being safe and responsible, not an issue of your sex life in general.

I have "slept around" in my lifetime and I've never gotten a disease. I was smart and safe about it, it wasn't "luck", I was just careful. And I didn't have lots of sex because I didn't respect myself...to the contrary, I respected myself to give myself what I wanted without worrying what people would think.

Quoting Smartass *TTC*:" Oh I like that! I personally don't care if girls call each others sluts or whores, it's just part of ... [snip!] ... it, no one calls me a slut lol. Come to think of it, when I was a slut no one called me a slut. I think I was a secret slut."

I had a similar issue, lol. Inhigh school, everyone called me a slut constantly and I only ever slept with one guy that I dated for two years.

When I DID sleep around a little bit, no one ever said anything.  

Quoting Smartass *TTC*:" Oh I like that! I personally don't care if girls call each others sluts or whores, it's just part of ... [snip!] ... it, no one calls me a slut lol. Come to think of it, when I was a slut no one called me a slut. I think I was a secret slut."

Same here!! hahaha

But, I've been called bitch and slut online because people didn't like me!

I do hate the term slut though, and bitch... and smurf... however, just because I don't like those words doesn't mean anyone is going to stop using them!

Quoting Harlot O'Scara:" But that's just it though. Why? Why is it so horrible that you must call someone names because of PERSONAL choices they make that don't concern you? "

Uh, when I can see someone's thong from the BOTTOM of their shorts, and they're exposing that to my child, it concerns me. When someone's tits are popping out of their too-small push up bra, and shirt that's barely a handkerchief, it concerns me. When someone's all over their man of the day and practically screwing them in the parking lot of the store, and I have to take my child PAST that, and shield their eyes, it concerns me.

IDGAF what someone does in their own home. Once it comes into the public view.... I have an issue with it.

Lmao where are some of y'all hanging out? I never see any of that

Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" Uh, when I can see someone's thong from the BOTTOM of their shorts, and they're exposing that to my ... [snip!] ... it concerns me. IDGAF what someone does in their own home. Once it comes into the public view.... I have an issue with it. "

This is my big issue, too. If you are in a club, 18+ - whatever, I don't care, bbut when you are out and about in public where there are children and I have to look at it, yes, it becomes my problem. I shouldn't have to shield my kids eyes when we walk through the mall because you can't be bothered to have manners or dress so that your private areas aren't covered. I don't need my kids seeing that smurf.

Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" Uh, when I can see someone's thong from the BOTTOM of their shorts, and they're exposing that to my ... [snip!] ... it concerns me. IDGAF what someone does in their own home. Once it comes into the public view.... I have an issue with it. "

You have to deal with people in the public however. Not everyone holds you personal views on modesty, and child rearing. Someone is not a slut just because you have an issue with things.

Quoting Brink:" Lmao where are some of y'all hanging out? I never see any of that"

When I lived in FL, some woman went into the store in a black thong, a push up bra, and a smurfing fishnet dress. Nothing else but flip flops. You could see her pubes sticking out from the thong... it was absolutely disgusting.

Quoting Brink:" Lmao where are some of y'all hanging out? I never see any of that"

When I lived in Buffalo, it was WAY worse than it is down here in GA, but when I lived in Richmond VA when I was in college, it was crazy.

Quoting Brink:" Lmao where are some of y'all hanging out? I never see any of that"

Not anywhere they I have been that's for sure.

Quoting MysticWitchKat:" You have to deal with people in the public however. Not everyone holds you personal views on modesty, and child rearing. Someone is not a slut just because you have an issue with things."

Porn is 18+, right? You get in trouble for showing anyone under 18 porno - some of the smurf I have seen is basically porn - it's called respect, some people have none.

Quoting MysticWitchKat:" You have to deal with people in the public however. Not everyone holds you personal views on modesty, and child rearing. Someone is not a slut just because you have an issue with things."

Notice I never called someone a slut.  

But if you can't go around without your underwear hanging out, or your tits popping out, etc, then maybe you shouldn't be out. I don't want to see it, my kid doesn't NEED to see it, and most of the rest of the people don't want to see it. Common courtesy.