re: "Slut"

Quoting LolaMcKitten:" Then you should probably catch up on your child psychology.  "

She is correct actually with that. Society dictates a lot of what we view as correct, and incorrect.

Quoting Tarynosaurus Rex:" So I assume if you're offended by a woman's nipples you would also be offended by a man's? Because if ... [snip!] ... is just curious about breasts. Most kids see breasts daily. At least those who are breastfed do. It's not the end of the world."

Actually, I think it's rude for men to have their shirts off in public, too.

And again - this goes back to sexuality. You don't accidetily wear a shirt where your nipples are out. There is a HUGE difference between explaining that that womans nipples are out because that is how she feeds her baby and having to explain to him why that woman just randomly had her nipples out.

Quoting MysticWitchKat:" She is correct actually with that. Society dictates a lot of what we view as correct, and incorrect."

It's also been proven that seeing things that are sexual in nature effect a kids psyche - maybe we DO dictate to them what is sexual, but to teach them that certain things are NOT sexual is stupid.

Quoting MysticWitchKat:" *walks past taryn smothered in just parkay* How bout now?"

Just don't touch me woman.

Quoting Tarynosaurus Rex:" Just don't touch me woman."

bet you can't believe I'm not butter huh?

Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" The law begs to differ with you.  "

The law cannot decide what is and is not offensive to a person. And actually her outfit is perfectly legal. You can't see her vagina and her nipples are covered. She is breaking no laws.

Quoting Tarynosaurus Rex:" The law cannot decide what is and is not offensive to a person. And actually her outfit is perfectly legal. You can't see her vagina and her nipples are covered. She is breaking no laws."

Again - this goes back to whats responsible and respectful, not whats legal.

Quoting LolaMcKitten:" Actually, I think it's rude for men to have their shirts off in public, too. And again - this goes ... [snip!] ... are out because that is how she feeds her baby and having to explain to him why that woman just randomly had her nipples out. "

So do you think it is inherently wrong to expose children to sexuality simply because of where we live and our society, or do you think it is also wrong in cultures where it is the norm?
I really see nothing wrong with kids even knowing about sex and sexuality as long as they are not a part of it. I believe in educating kids and I don't think they're ever too young to learn about biological facts. I knew what sex was when I was 4 years old. I knew how it worked and how babies were made and everything. I was in no way damaged by this information.

Quoting MysticWitchKat:" bet you can't believe I'm not butter huh?"

I feel like you should have Fabio next to you.

Quoting Tarynosaurus Rex:" So do you think it is inherently wrong to expose children to sexuality simply because of where we live ... [snip!] ... I was 4 years old. I knew how it worked and how babies were made and everything. I was in no way damaged by this information."

It's not that I am opposed to children learning about sex, either. but it's MY choice when and where my child learns about it - and it's incredibly disrespectful to act or dress in ways around children that are sexual. Yes, partially due to how our society views sex, out social norms and how our society sees sex DOES have a lot to do with what is acceptable and what is not, BUT, that being said, I want you to show me ONE culture where they have sex or participate in sexual acts with or around children other than child marriage, because that is a whole different subject.

I believe in being open with children about sex and educating them, my children will hear the "talk" from me so many times growing up that it will likely annoy them, but I agree - it's incredibly important. I am also in favor of allowing my daughter to have birth control, my sons to have condoms and free and open communication about sex.

But again - that is MY choice when and where this happens. When we go out to the store and I have my 9 year old with me, I shouldn't have to explain why a woman has her ass and pubes hanging out of the bottom of her skirt. Like I said - I don't think there should be laws saying what women should be allowed to wear, but I think women (and men) need to have some respect and take responsibility for themselves when they are in public and around children.

And yes - outfits CAN be sexual. In fact, the outfit is partially what MAKES it sexual, nudity itself is not sexual, but boosting your breasts up with a push up bra and having your asscheeks hanging out IS sexual and if you think otherwise, then I am sorry you don't find women dressed like that hot. (because I do.....just not in front of my kids ;) )

Quoting LolaMcKitten:" It's not that I am opposed to children learning about sex, either. but it's MY choice when and where ... [snip!] ... otherwise, then I am sorry you don't find women dressed like that hot. (because I do.....just not in front of my kids ;) )"

There is a difference in engaging in sexual acts and wearing a revealing outfit. One is not comparable to the other. I'm super tired and don't have the energy for this discussion anymore since clearly we are not going to agree. I think it's great that you plan to be so open with your kids, but I don't agree that an outfit, cloth/fabric, can make someone sexual. It is not always the intent to be seen in a sexual manner. I wear tight jeans and form fitting tank tops and my bf finds it incredibly hot/sexy/sexual. Doesn't mean I'm trying to look sexy. I just like the clothes. I think people have a right to express themselves however they feel like and I think our culture has a very puritan view on sex and sexuality. I mean sure sex is everywhere in our society, but we are also conditioned to think it is wrong and unacceptable. It's a very interesting combination to say the least.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Harlot O'Scara:</b>" Diseases can be spread by people who have a small number of partners too. That is an issue of safe sex ... [snip!] ... respect myself...to the contrary, I respected myself to give myself what I wanted without worrying what people would think. "</blockquote>



I'm saying, obviously the more people you sleep with, the more likely you are to get a disease. Even if you are careful. Condoms break. Not uncommon at all.
You can easily get something, ESPECiALLY if ou sleep around.
It's disgusting, and it's disrespectful to yourself and others. My opinion. You asked and I answered honestly. I'm not wrong, and I'm not
Saying you are wrong either, I'm sure there is truth to both sides.
I just find it disgusting, and I would only sleep with a bunch of people if I was so depressed that I wanted to kill myself or if I just hated life and didn't care about anything. I would never have sex with someone unless I thought i would be with them for the rest of my life. I lost my virginity when I was 13, and I think that was gross and slutty of me. I did it because honestly I hated myself, I hated my mom, I hated my life, and I didn't care if I lived or died. I was stupid and I did think I would be with that guy forever though. I didn't do it planning to sleep with a ton of guys.

Quoting Silly Mily's Momma ♡:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Harlot O'Scara:</b>" Diseases can be spread by people who have ... [snip!] ... I was stupid and I did think I would be with that guy forever though. I didn't do it planning to sleep with a ton of guys."

How is it disrespectful to yourself?

<blockquote><b>Quoting MysticWitchKat:</b>" How is it disrespectful to yourself?"</blockquote>



I think it's disrespectful to your body and health because of all the risks involved with sleeping with a lot of people, and your heart because I believe when you sleep with someone, no matter what your intentions were, even if you don't love that person or have any feelings for them, I still believe you give thoes people a tiny piece of your heart that you'll never get back.

Quoting Harlot O'Scara:" Yes, I'm opening this can of worms. Why do so many people feel the need to call women "sluts"? It's ... [snip!] ... our culture. Sexuality is an intensely personal thing and I don't think it's fair to judge anyone so harshly for it. Thoughts?"

I call women sluts because they have messy rooms.

The orginal meaning of slut was used in regards to women who kept their rooms dirty.