re: bi sexual

I've dated more girls than guys but have only had sex with one of my exs. I feel like the sex is more passionate with a woman. In my experience, sex with men is more like them wanting to get off but with a woman you want to get her off and she wants the same for you, it's not "one sided sex". I would still be with my last ex if she wasn't lazy about work, addicted to pot, and I had a feeling she was sleeping with her one friend (even though she denied it).