stupid stubborn DH

okay so DH is VERY stubborn, like ridiculously and annoyingly so.. never apologizes first after an argument, if he thinks he's right he won't even listen to what you have to say, etc.
so he's very into being 'cool' he would never say that but it's things like we need a bigger car and if the only thing we could afford is a mini van he wouldn't get it because it's uncool and he would rather put us into more debt(40,000+ due to school loans) to get a cool car  
so the thing that is driving me mad like i'm literally mad just thinking about it, is our son is very hyper and crazy all day long, he literally never sits still.. anyways he LOVES dancing, if there's music on he goes crazy dancing and he loves watching people dance even more(music videos, dance numbers in movies, etc.) so obviously i think it would be great to put him in some sort of dance class since he loves it so much and it would help get some of his crazy energy out.. but DH says he absolutely will not ever take a dance class and the only 'sport' he can play is soccer. because that's what DH played as a kid. it's driving me insane because i wish he cared more about our son being happy than him playing the same sport as him   i just don't know what to do cause we've argued/discussed it a million times and he will not budge..
has anyone else had a DH/SO like this that changed? i just want him to want our kid to do things he WANTS not because his dad is making him   so any advice at all? i know he sounds like a douche but he's my douche <3 lol

I say tell him to get over it and let your son do what activities he wants to do. No one likes being pushed into something they don't want to do. :/ Sorry your DH is like that.

DH is like this.. I want to put DS in gymnastics later in life along with w.e sport DH wants to put him in. Theres no reason your DS can't dance and play soccer.

My advice.. Just do what you want and tell your DH to just shut up.
I just enroll my kids into things and take care of it myself and the odd time I can't take them I arrange for someone else to do it.
That way DH has nothing to bitch about and most importantly my kids stay happy  

Quoting Mommy2a Prince&Princess:" DH is like this.. I want to put DS in gymnastics later in life along with w.e sport DH wants to put him ... [snip!] ... them I arrange for someone else to do it. That way DH has nothing to bitch about and most importantly my kids stay happy  "

yeah maybe i'll try it i just don't want to cause any problems i hate fighting/confrontationg   lol but he is only 3 right now so he has a few years still i just hope he voices what he wants to his dad once the time comes, maybe coming from him he'll get it.

Your DH sound ridiculous. If I were you I would put my boy in whatever class or sport he wanted regardless of what DH would say.

Quoting T♥B:" yeah maybe i'll try it i just don't want to cause any problems i hate fighting/confrontationg   lol ... [snip!] ... has a few years still i just hope he voices what he wants to his dad once the time comes, maybe coming from him he'll get it."

Not true DD has been in ballet for 2 years already and she just turned 5 in July.

Just refuse to fight about it. Take a video of him having fun and say straight out ask him why he has such a problem with his son being happy.
If he has any bit of a brain he won't say anything after that.. lol

Quoting Mommy2a Prince&Princess:" Not true DD has been in ballet for 2 years already and she just turned 5 in July. Just refuse to fight ... [snip!] ... him why he has such a problem with his son being happy. If he has any bit of a brain he won't say anything after that.. lol"

he was there on thanksgiving when my son was dancing to all the songs/dances on White Christmas and DH looked irritated   i seriously don't get it at all.  

Umm put him in the dance class and tell DH to pound sand. Forcing your child to play what you want is a surefire way to make them hate the sport.