Quoting T♥B:" yeah maybe i'll try it i just don't want to cause any problems i hate fighting/confrontationg lol ... [snip!] ... has a few years still i just hope he voices what he wants to his dad once the time comes, maybe coming from him he'll get it."
Not true DD has been in ballet for 2 years already and she just turned 5 in July.
Just refuse to fight about it. Take a video of him having fun and say straight out ask him why he has such a problem with his son being happy.
If he has any bit of a brain he won't say anything after that.. lol