re: Reborn Doll -__-

S th<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm Marbles:</b>" I was helpful, I told her dolls are nothing like a child, which is the truth. You obviously missed that having your head stuck up your ass. "</blockquot
  That's not really helpful,just your opinion on the doll. You're not doing anything but being a bully. Act like an adult.

Quoting Mother of One plus One:" S th<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm Marbles:</b>" I was helpful, I told her dolls are ... [snip!] ... That's not really helpful,just your opinion on the doll. You're not doing anything but being a bully. Act like an adult."

Its the internet. She can act anyway she wants. You telling her to act this or that way is not going to change her. Right now, you're just contributing to her "rudeness" by arguing with her about it. You and the cookiemonster girl. Save it and move on.

Aren't Reborn Dolls kinda expensive? Wouldn't it be better to use that money on something more useful, especially if you're thinking of keeping the child. Babies are expensive, and I agree with the other momma that said that kids only get harder. They are easy peasy before they get mobile...

Ng.<blockquote><b>Quoting Jas ♥:</b>" Its the internet. She can act anyway she wants. You telling her to act this or that way is not going ... [snip!] ... you're just contributing to her "rudeness" by arguing with her about it. You and the cookiemonster girl. Save it and move on."</blockquote>


    I am not arguing. Just stating facts.

Quoting Mother of One plus One:" Ng.<blockquote><b>Quoting Jas ♥:</b>" Its the internet. She can act anyway she ... [snip!] ... You and the cookiemonster girl. Save it and move on."</blockquote>     I am not arguing. Just stating facts."

No boo boo, you're arguing but okay lol.

Quoting Mother of One plus One:" S th<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm Marbles:</b>" I was helpful, I told her dolls are ... [snip!] ... That's not really helpful,just your opinion on the doll. You're not doing anything but being a bully. Act like an adult."

stating the truth is not being a bully.
She will be a senior in high school when her kid starts kindegarten.

OP you should really consider adoption.

You are being very selfish in keeping this baby.

<blockquote><b>Quoting The Devil's Squeekerz:</b>" Aren't Reborn Dolls kinda expensive? Wouldn't it be better to use that money on something more useful, ... [snip!] ... expensive, and I agree with the other momma that said that kids only get harder. They are easy peasy before they get mobile... "</blockquote>




Absolutely! And now my son, almost 6, is so freaking expensive and a lot more work than he was as a baby.Never mind diapers as a baby, what about now with Doctor bills, dentists, new clothes every few months, new winter coats and boots ever year cost at least 100 dollars. And that's just necessities, he also wants to play sports and do other activities with his friends. And if he gets hurt or sick you can tack another 250 onto our Medical bills for that month. He just needed a new bed in October, 700 dollars. And that's just my son! I'm not even talking about all the different expenses for my daughter.
Op, I just don't think you've thought of all of this. I know I hadn't before I had him. He was unplanned and I got pregnant when I was 19 had him when I was 20, and even I wish I could have just waited to have kids. There is so much I wanted to do but right now my kids need me to focus on them. My dreams and aspirations will have to wait. It sucks.

Quoting JiLLiAN.:" OP you should really consider adoption. You are being very selfish in keeping this baby."

I agree.

Quoting Jas ♥:" I agree."

In another post she said her MIL bought a crib. No, OP, you do not have a MIL.

but seriously, she can't get a job unless it's a paper route or she works on a farm, and the chances of that are slim to none depending where she lives. She's asking her parents and whoever else to foot the bill for her mistake.

Quoting MommaSav2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting The Devil's Squeekerz:</b>" Aren't Reborn Dolls kinda expensive? ... [snip!] ... so much I wanted to do but right now my kids need me to focus on them. My dreams and aspirations will have to wait. It sucks."

 

<blockquote><b>Quoting JiLLiAN.:</b>" OP you should really consider adoption. You are being very selfish in keeping this baby."</blockquote>



Agreed. The only person you're thinking of in deciding to keep this baby is you and what you want. Not wht would be best for the baby and the other people involved. I'm sure your parents didn't plan on having to take care of our kid while you finished high school.
You're just being selfish. Please consider adoption, it would be the most selfless parenting decision you could make.

Quoting MommaSav2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting JiLLiAN.:</b>" OP you should really consider adoption. You ... [snip!] ... school. You're just being selfish. Please consider adoption, it would be the most selfless parenting decision you could make."

If she actually goes through with and finishes high school.  

<blockquote><b>Quoting JiLLiAN.:</b>" In another post she said her MIL bought a crib. No, OP, you do not have a MIL. but seriously, she ... [snip!] ... of that are slim to none depending where she lives. She's asking her parents and whoever else to foot the bill for her mistake."</blockquote>




And she can't drive baby to its doctor's appointments for the first two gets until she gets her drivers lisence. So that's an appointment at 7 days, 2 weeks, 4weeks, 2 months, 4 months, 6 months, 9months, 12 months, 15months, 18months, and 2 years. ThT someone else will have to miss work to take HER kid to the doctor, and that jut well visits! Nevermind the kids getting sick! And since she can't work someone else will also be paying that bill.
Jut selfish.

<blockquote><b>Quoting JiLLiAN.:</b>" If she actually goes through with and finishes high school.  "</blockquote>




And her odds at doing that are what? 1 in 10? (I don't actually hav those stats in front of me)