re: Don't want second abortion (update page 2)

You need to do what is best for YOU. I hope that whatever you decide it is what YOU want. I will be praying for you

It sounds like he is only happy if he gets what he wants.
I mean he's happy to have unproteced sex but not take responcibilities for the end result.
Men will never fully understand what it is like to have an abortion, especially the emotional rollercoaster you go on afterwards.
Just remember as you are in the end being forced to do this you are having a child taken away from you & if you thought it was hard the first time it will be twice as hard the second time.
Hopefully you have support from others but maybe take your husband to a couples councillor & get out your feelings, let him understand before going through with this. xo

I did have the abortion, one the whole I have not found it as hard as the first time but I did have a meltdown last night which I am about to post about...

I still feel I did what's right (not so much for me, but for my family, specifically my children) at this time. And we are now WTTTC so will look forward to that once things are straightened out, we need to work on all the problems which led us to have to have 2 abortions in the first place first.

Thankyou for all your support though everyone x x x x

<blockquote><b>Quoting pixie b:</b>" I did have the abortion, one the whole I have not found it as hard as the first time but I did have a ... [snip!] ... which led us to have to have 2 abortions in the first place first. Thankyou for all your support though everyone x x x x"</blockquote>


I'm glad you aren't having as hard a time with it this time. Hopefully, knowing that you did what was best for your exisiting children will bring you some peace.

And i think waiting to TTC until you have ironed out the issues that caused your two abortions is the smartest thing you could do. And hopefully your husband will be more responsible about actively protective you from having to go through this again.
*hugs* you should be proud of yourself for being able to make a decision based on the welfare of your two existing children.

<blockquote><b>Quoting MommaSav2:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting pixie b:</b>" I did have the abortion, one the whole I have ... [snip!] ... *hugs* you should be proud of yourself for being able to make a decision based on the welfare of your two existing children."</blockquote>




thankyou that means a lot to me x