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vbac HELP!!!!

posted 25th Nov
i had a c csection 2 nd a half years ago due to my daughters heart would slow when i had contractions, im almost 37 weeks pregnant nd they are wanting me to have another c section nd i asked y nd all they told me is its to risky. i honestly dnt understand y its "to risky" due to the fact that my last one was 2 nd ahalf years ago...i honestly think my doctor if for c sections nd im just really worried cuz i dnt want them to make me deliver nd hes not ready they r planning to at 39 weeks nd im now almost 37. I go to the doctor on tuesday nd i plan on telling him i want a vbac but i know hes gonna try nd talk me outta it so if he dose tell me that idk what i can do like what are my options can i be forced to have a c section can i just wait till i go into labor nd go to a hospital ...help anyone
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I'm due December 18th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Ontario, California
posted 25th Nov
If you don't want another c section he has to respect that. Some doctors don't do another c-section but my dr is pretty amazing she told me as long as I wait a year I get pregnant again wich it has been almost 4 years now lol
But I hope he lets you have a vbac if that's what you want
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I'm TTC since August '12, have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Salem, Oregon
posted 25th Nov
Quoting Armida MJ Lopez:" i had a c csection 2 nd a half years ago due to my daughters heart would slow when i had contractions, ... [snip!] ... are my options can i be forced to have a c section can i just wait till i go into labor nd go to a hospital ...help anyone "
tell him that if baby looks fine you're firm in wanting a VBAC, and ask him to recommend an OB that will assist you with one.
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I have 4 kids & live in Georgia
posted 25th Nov
Bleh they like to scare people because it is easier for them that way. Can't be riskier than me. I get to vbac and I just had my csection 7.5 months ago.
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I'm due June 26th (a girl), have 1 child & live in Caldwell, Idaho
posted 25th Nov
Quoting Y+I=KENDRA:" If you don't want another c section he has to respect that. Some doctors don't do another c-section but ... [snip!] ... a year I get pregnant again wich it has been almost 4 years now lol But I hope he lets you have a vbac if that's what you want"
yea it has been 2 years since my last c section nd i REALLY dnt want one y should i force my bby to come if he isnt ready, right?
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I'm due December 18th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Ontario, California
posted 25th Nov
Quoting snglemama:" tell him that if baby looks fine you're firm in wanting a VBAC, and ask him to recommend an OB that will assist you with one."
thank u sooo much this was a big help ima tell him just like this... punk aint gonna make me do sh** LOL  
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I'm due December 18th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Ontario, California
posted 25th Nov
Quoting Armida MJ Lopez:" thank u sooo much this was a big help ima tell him just like this... punk aint gonna make me do sh** LOL  "



understand he can refuse to be your doctor. You cannot force HIM to do a vbac. and.. you may not be able to find an OB who will take you on this late in pregnancy. so... you could get stuck with whoever is on call anyway... and they could try to make you have one.




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I have 4 kids & live in Georgia
posted 25th Nov

Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" Bleh they like to scare people because it is easier for them that way. Can't be riskier than me. I get to vbac and I just had my csection 7.5 months ago."
yea i think they think they got me since i havnt mention vbac since i found out i was pregnant, i just think its so wrong to try nd force me to have a c section @ 39 weeks nd when i ask y all they can come up with is its "too risky" BULLCRAP




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I'm due December 18th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Ontario, California
posted 25th Nov
Quoting Armida MJ Lopez:" "



well.. why did you have a section last time? why do they want to section you this time? there are multiple factors to consider. ALso.. how is the hospital set up? is the OR on the same floor as L&D?




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I have 4 kids & live in Georgia
posted 25th Nov
<blockquote><b>Quoting snglemama:</b>" understand he can refuse to be your doctor. You cannot force HIM to do a vbac. and.. you may not ... [snip!] ... late in pregnancy. so... you could get stuck with whoever is on call anyway... and they could try to make you have one. "</blockquote>



This. It really is something you should have gone about differently to be honest. But hope it works for you.
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I'm due June 26th (a girl), have 1 child & live in Caldwell, Idaho
posted 25th Nov
Quoting snglemama:" understand he can refuse to be your doctor. You cannot force HIM to do a vbac. and.. you may not ... [snip!] ... late in pregnancy. so... you could get stuck with whoever is on call anyway... and they could try to make you have one. "
Okay well just incase he refuses me ima call a hospital that is for vbac nd try nd get reffered to a OB that will take me because i will refuse it unless my baby is in serious danger ill be going to him tuesday for a chck up nd see what he tells me.... wish me luck nd thank u again
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I'm due December 18th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Ontario, California
posted 25th Nov
Quoting Armida MJ Lopez:" Okay well just incase he refuses me ima call a hospital that is for vbac nd try nd get reffered to a ... [snip!] ... baby is in serious danger ill be going to him tuesday for a chck up nd see what he tells me.... wish me luck nd thank u again"

you can call around... but most doctors won't take on a patient that late in pregnancy. you're better off calling around OB's than the hospital itself
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I have 4 kids & live in Georgia
posted 25th Nov
Quoting snglemama:" well.. why did you have a section last time? why do they want to section you this time? there are ... [snip!] ... there are multiple factors to consider. ALso.. how is the hospital set up? is the OR on the same floor as L&D? "
yea the OR nd L&D is on the same floor the hospital is a very small hospital not even two stories high, nd the reason was cuz when i would have contractions my daughters heart would slow dwn so they did the c section. so now its been 2 nd a haf years later
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I'm due December 18th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Ontario, California
posted 25th Nov
Quoting snglemama:" you can call around... but most doctors won't take on a patient that late in pregnancy. you're better off calling around OB's than the hospital itself"
ok
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I'm due December 18th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Ontario, California
posted 25th Nov
Quoting snglemama:" you can call around... but most doctors won't take on a patient that late in pregnancy. you're better off calling around OB's than the hospital itself"
do u know what my other option would be if i dont find a OB?
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I'm due December 18th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Ontario, California
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