Pregnant not planned

So i had been a couple days late on my periods and i wasnt really trippin i would wear a pad to work just in case i started but my lil boobs i wear a32a were hurting like after i gave birth to my first daughter 3yrs ago. Anyways i tell my baby daddy who is this the same fauther to my daughter that i'm prenant and the first thing he tells me is to get rid of it. He doesnt love me and we wont work and he feel like killing himself i do dont get it of it. I wasnt surprised by his actions cuz he tried my make me abort our 3yr old when i was pregnant with her. I dont understand how i got pregant because he was always pulling out! i really dont know how to feel and i know he hates my guts

first of all, the pull out method is not really an effective form of birth control. I also don't understand why you would have sex with someone who you know "hates your guts". I'm sorry that you are in a tough situation, but I'm kind of dumbfounded right now.

Your 27 and you haven't figured out that the pull out method doesn't work most of the time. Birth control and condoms combined are the most effective way of preventing pregnancy(other then just not having sex). If that was his reaction with your 3 year old you should have both been trying to prevent pregnancy more effectively!

Quoting Ms. Carter:" So i had been a couple days late on my periods and i wasnt really trippin i would wear a pad to work ... [snip!] ... dont understand how i got pregant because he was always pulling out! i really dont know how to feel and i know he hates my guts"

1. Pull out method=ineffective.
2. He=dipsmurf douchebag. Find someone who deserves you.

Sorry. I tend to be more blunt when I'm pregnant. XD

Quoting 1st1ontheway:" Your 27 and you haven't figured out that the pull out method doesn't work most of the time. Birth control ... [snip!] ... sex). If that was his reaction with your 3 year old you should have both been trying to prevent pregnancy more effectively!"

I knew that the pull out method wasnt %10o effective and then he thought i was still on the depo and i havent been on that in a year
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<blockquote><b>Quoting Ms. Carter:</b>" I knew that the pull out method wasnt %10o effective and then he thought i was still on the depo and i havent been on that in a year e"</blockquote>




Don't you think you should have told him/been honest?

Quoting Ms. Carter:" I knew that the pull out method wasnt %10o effective and then he thought i was still on the depo and i havent been on that in a year e"

So you were lying to him and at the same time intentionally having sex you knew could lead to pregnancy with someone who obviously isn't interested in being a parent?