How did you know?.. (Advice Please!)

When you were ready to start trying for your second baby (if they were planned)? I know we are not quite ready yet.. But I am thinking we may starting trying for a second child sometime next year.. I just worry we won't be fully ready yet.. DS is almost 15 months old, and SO has an amazing job and will be getting a raise starting Dec 1st.. We are currently renting our house, and our lease is up in January and we plan on finding another rental around March (there's a few different reasons we aren't going to stay in our current house) We are going to be starting the process to start buying a home next year also (that is one of the big things that worries me about jumping the gun on having another while trying to buy a home) SO and I are engaged (and have been for 3 1/2 years! Ugh) lol But I definitely want to be married before we even start trying again.. And we are getting married at the beginning of the year... Soo... How did you know you were ready to conceive your second child? And were you correct?! I hope that made sense.. Lol

I'm not ready but I have some advice. Get into that new home first and get your LO settled first.

You are never "ready" you just make it work for the best in my opinion. There's always something that should be done before having a child, no matter when you consider it.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥ Monkey:</b>" I'm not ready but I have some advice. Get into that new home first and get your LO settled first."</blockquote>


This.

Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" You are never "ready" you just make it work for the best in my opinion. There's always something that should be done before having a child, no matter when you consider it."

  This.

If everyone waited until they were 'ready' nobody would be having babies lol

<blockquote><b>Quoting (♥ my littles]™:</b>"   This. If everyone waited until they were 'ready' nobody would be having babies lol"</blockquote>

Right?

Hell, I didn't want mine 14 months apart but suuurrprise! LOL

Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" <blockquote><b>Quoting (♥ my littles]™:</b>"   This. If everyone waited until ... [snip!] ... nobody would be having babies lol"</blockquote> Right? Hell, I didn't want mine 14 months apart but suuurrprise! LOL"

Mine are 8 years apart and I still wasn't ready LMAO

<blockquote><b>Quoting (♥ my littles]™:</b>" Mine are 8 years apart and I still wasn't ready LMAO"</blockquote>




Lmao. I figure mine will have a built in best friend.

Ds is 2 so if we got pregnant any time now he will be 3 by the time the new baby comes... Your never really "ready" to add more to your family but you guys will make it work!