I want to

to do something nice for my SO when he gets home. He gets off an hour.

Before he left he was almost in tears telling me how I don't apperciate him and how it's always about me and LO and never about him or what he wants.

I have thought about it and he is right.   I feel like I am about to lose him </3

I want to do something special for him.. but have no clue what.
I don't have anything to really cook him.
And idk about having sex because he is all dirty and gross when he gets home.

Write him a love note telling him how much you love and appreciate him

offer him a drink... then while hes drinking run the shower for him.. and join him.. give him a full body massage.. i do this for my SO every now and then and he loves it..

Quoting ♡Sarah♡ + 2:" Write him a love note telling him how much you love and appreciate him"

He's not into that type of smurf.       He doesn't even beleive in buying aniversary cards or birthday cards.

Quoting Deborah B.:" offer him a drink... then while hes drinking run the shower for him.. and join him.. give him a full body massage.. i do this for my SO every now and then and he loves it.."

That is a good idea! Thank you!

Have any post its? I write and leave post its telling SO how much I love him when I think he needs reminding and he thinks its super cute. I thought about writing one reason on a ton of them and sticking them on a big wall for him to come home to. Want to do it soon, but I always forget to buy the damn things!

Maybe run a shower for him and give him a massage. Maybe make some snacks or something for him.

Quoting May ♥:" That is a good idea! Thank you!"

no problem... this way you dont have to deal with him being dirty yet he still gets the surprise sex lol. i make it a hot shower and rub SOs back while the water hits him.. then when we get to the room i massage his shoulders, legs, neck, and back a lil more.. sometimes he loves it to the point he falls asleep lol

Thanks everyone  

Quoting wigglewaddle:" Have any post its? I write and leave post its telling SO how much I love him when I think he needs reminding ... [snip!] ... them and sticking them on a big wall for him to come home to. Want to do it soon, but I always forget to buy the damn things!"

  I do the post its A LOT.


 

What did you end up doing?!

<blockquote><b>Quoting kthx.:</b>"   I do the post its A LOT.   What did you end up doing?!"</blockquote>




Awww!

Nothing yet because Bailee won't go to sleep  

Quoting May ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting kthx.:</b>"   I do the post its A LOT.   What did you end up doing?!"</blockquote> Awww! Nothing yet because Bailee won't go to sleep  "

Boooo  

SO's niece is Baylie