re: Deleted~ my cousin is a bitch, lol. Its sad.

Quoting Ҿcɧơ:" I'm really glad ya'll aren't pumbling me with judgement and ridicule. I don't want to go through another ... [snip!] ... involving paternity papers and whatnot. I don't want my best friend to turn into my OTHER baby daddy who hates me.   "

Understandable. I'd do the same thing in your situation. Don't feel bad.

Do you have the means to pay for it though? Or are you gonna have to ask James or your grandma?

I hope you are able to get the abortion you need without too much trouble. You should try Paragard afterwards. I really want that IUD myself, because you don't have to worry about remembering pills or condoms.

Quoting Derpy Hooves:" I hope you are able to get the abortion you need without too much trouble. You should try Paragard afterwards. ... [snip!] ... try Paragard afterwards. I really want that IUD myself, because you don't have to worry about remembering pills or condoms."

  
And it doesn't use hormones! I'm so excited to get this after I have this baby.

Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" Understandable. I'd do the same thing in your situation. Don't feel bad. Do you have the means to pay for it though? Or are you gonna have to ask James or your grandma?"

I've told James, no one else knows. He said he would take care of it. And it will all go away.
I just can't wait until it does.


Its lucky that he's about to get out of the expensive ass house we were living in. He'll have the extra money. Good timing....I guess?

Quoting Fancy Asparagus Beef:"    And it doesn't use hormones! I'm so excited to get this after I have this baby."

Is that the little thing they stick inside your arm?

You will get no judgement from me! I am sorry that you have to go through this... it is a difficult decision to make, but it sounds like you are making the right one!

Quoting Ҿcɧơ:" Is that the little thing they stick inside your arm?"

It's the copper T that goes in your uterus.

The arm one is hormonal. Implanon.

Quoting Ҿcɧơ:" I've told James, no one else knows. He said he would take care of it. And it will all go away. I just ... [snip!] ... that he's about to get out of the expensive ass house we were living in. He'll have the extra money. Good timing....I guess?"

If there's a such thing as a good time for that, this would be it.


I'm so happy he's being supportive though. That was my main worry when I read your post, since he hasn't had the best track record of being there for you emotionally.

Quoting Derpy Hooves:" It's the copper T that goes in your uterus. The arm one is hormonal. Implanon."

See~ I don't know these things because I am stubborn and don't use the smurf. Now I am going to. Damn it.  

Good luck in whatever you decide. Paragard is a really great option for BC I've been on it for 2 years and no complaints.

Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" If there's a such thing as a good time for that, this would be it. I'm so happy he's being supportive ... [snip!] ... That was my main worry when I read your post, since he hasn't had the best track record of being there for you emotionally."

Oh I'm on and off this site so much, I hardly let people be there for me emotionally on here, but thanks for being concerned. I'm really glad he's being supportive too. I didn't think he wouldn't be...he's just like that. He's there for people when they need him. He really is a great guy.We just shouldn't be married! heh..

Ok what the hell would you have sex with two different people with out protection if you were not TTC?

Anyway You know you have 3 options, so what one is the one that "feels" most right to you? I know that right now you don't want to think of any of those choices and with this did not happen.... but it did.

So what is the first thing that comes to your heat when you think of this? Keep it, abort, give it up? Tell me what is the very forst thing that comes to your mind.

And then maybe I can give you some advise.

BUT seriously, you are so young, you have your whole life ahead of you. So please know that your life is not ruined and all will be ok eventually. This will be hard for a while but things are going to be OK. And I think waiting till 30 is a good idea! I had my first at 31.

Hey so can anyone tell me what the process of getting an abortion is like? Paperwork...tests...how long it takes to actually get it...amount of money???

I'm going to get on this smurf on MONDAY MORNING. I want to know what to expect...

How does it feel? Does it hurt??? I don't know what to expect!!!!!!!

Quoting applelove:" Ok what the hell would you have sex with two different people with out protection if you were not TTC? ... [snip!] ... This will be hard for a while but things are going to be OK. And I think waiting till 30 is a good idea! I had my first at 31."

Im sorry but smurf happens...

Quoting Ҿcɧơ:" Oh I'm on and off this site so much, I hardly let people be there for me emotionally on here, but thanks ... [snip!] ... just like that. He's there for people when they need him. He really is a great guy.We just shouldn't be married! heh.."

I know what you mean, girl. At least he's not a complete smurf!

If you ever need to talk/vent about it, you can FB message me anytime love~!