How to tell

if a guy friend likes you?
I have a feeling and my intuition is usually pretty spot on with this kind of thing, even though I tend to ignore it. But how do you tell? Cosmo just said if he likes your Instagram posts   I mean...

I am notoriously bad at it.

To the point where I had other people tell me for years that my best friend was into me... we started sleeping together.... and then he didn't want to be in a relationship with me.  

Quoting The Doctor:" I am notoriously bad at it. To the point where I had other people tell me for years that my best friend ... [snip!] ... my best friend was into me... we started sleeping together.... and then he didn't want to be in a relationship with me.  "

I can generally tell but I try to ignore it and think "No, he's just a good guy"  
I just don't want to be that self-centered girl who thinks her friend likes her then finds out that he really just is a good guy. Haha.

 



I don't know exactly. The only way I've ever found out is flirting back if I like them too.

Otherwise, I ignore it until it either fades or he says something.
That may not be the best way to handle it though, idk lol.

Quoting Up In Smoke Signals:" I can generally tell but I try to ignore it and think "No, he's just a good guy"   I just don't ... [snip!] ... want to be that self-centered girl who thinks her friend likes her then finds out that he really just is a good guy. Haha."

Haha! Hmm. Does he talk about other girls to you? Does he try and make plans with you? Text/call a lot?

Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:"   I don't know exactly. The only way I've ever found out is flirting back if I like them too. ... [snip!] ... Otherwise, I ignore it until it either fades or he says something. That may not be the best way to handle it though, idk lol."

I don't even know how to flirt   smile and laugh a lot? I don't know. I'm like a guy. If I like somebody I make fun of them and tease them and stuff.

Quoting Up In Smoke Signals:" I don't even know how to flirt   smile and laugh a lot? I don't know. I'm like a guy. If I like somebody I make fun of them and tease them and stuff."

I am, too. I'm so awkward when I like someone.

Hmm. I'd go for the "hanging out one on one" with him, to guage his feelings. If he's touching you a lot, or trying to-- he's probably into you. haha

Quoting Up In Smoke Signals:" I don't even know how to flirt   smile and laugh a lot? I don't know. I'm like a guy. If I like somebody I make fun of them and tease them and stuff."

That's what I do, too lol.
I just smile a lot and tease each other back and forth, and somehow it comes out that we like each other eventually lmao.

Quoting The Doctor:" Haha! Hmm. Does he talk about other girls to you? Does he try and make plans with you? Text/call a lot?"

We work together   our manager is always trying to get him to talk to girls. But yeah, we hang out a lot and text a lot. He always asked me to hang out but I only started to recently.
I feel like this is gonna be one of those things that I'll be oblivious to until I get kissed or cause jealousy by hanging out with other guys  

Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" That's what I do, too lol. I just smile a lot and tease each other back and forth, and somehow it comes out that we like each other eventually lmao."

I don't even remember how it went with my ex   I was only 18. But the guy I guess I was seeing last year when we were broken up started out like this then he ended up kissing me and we were make out buddies for a while until he got all mad because I didn't want a boyfriend.
Great. Haha.

Quoting Up In Smoke Signals:" We work together   our manager is always trying to get him to talk to girls. But yeah, we hang out ... [snip!] ... be one of those things that I'll be oblivious to until I get kissed or cause jealousy by hanging out with other guys   "

Hey-- you could always just kiss him.   I bet you'd find out pretty fast if he was into you  

Quoting The Doctor:" I am, too. I'm so awkward when I like someone. Hmm. I'd go for the "hanging out one on one" with him, to guage his feelings. If he's touching you a lot, or trying to-- he's probably into you. haha"

We already hang out one on one a lot   like a few times a week. We smoke together though. So we'll smoke a blunt and have a cigarette and talk for a bit then I go home.

Quoting The Doctor:" Hey-- you could always just kiss him.   I bet you'd find out pretty fast if he was into you  "

I don't know if I want it to go that far  
I mean he's a cool dude and I'd be flattered if he did like me but smurf gets complicated. And I still live with my ex and think it would be kind of disrespectful for me to start seeing somebody else, who I work with, who I hung out with once or twice while we were still together. Idk.
Plus I would die if I had to kiss somebody first  

Quoting Up In Smoke Signals:" I don't know if I want it to go that far   I mean he's a cool dude and I'd be flattered if he did ... [snip!] ... with, who I hung out with once or twice while we were still together. Idk. Plus I would die if I had to kiss somebody first  "

Haha! I understand. I never make the first moves. haha

But... yeah, that could definitely make things tricky. I guess just keep hanging out with him and see what happens  

He just posted a picture of my ass on Instagram   what a creepster! Haha and texted me apologizing for creeping.
Yeah I'd say intuition is right. That or I just have a hot ass.







I just realized this sounds weird. The other day we were smoking and taking pictures of the sun behind clouds and I stood up to get a picture and i guess got in the way right as he took a picture.