Ugh!!!!

So my family is feuding STILL with my SO who moved out and they aren't happy he moved out. He left maybe 3 weeks ago now and it's a stress off of my shoulders in a way(living with parents, yeah, no.) -.- well, my mom tells me last night that my dad was going on about when I go to have baby he's going to tell my SO to take a good look at her because it'll be the only time until he finds a job here in my city and comes back because they don't want me moving near him which is an hour and a half or so away. -.- I instantly got pissed and thought to myself, isn't that my decision? I know I live under parents roof but its not my parents child it's SO's and mine? ): I'm tired of the drama and I'm beginning to think labor, on top of already not being fun, is going to be hell with drama and smurf.): guess I needed to vent a little. I love my family they're my everything they just seem so controlling.. and I love my SO to death even though he's a stubborn little smurf himself.

OH! Not to mention SO made his way out for the baby shower on the 17th and that shower was just filled with a bunch of gossip and smurf talking. Yay for me.): it's not like he left the baby and doesn't want any part of this, he's just looking for work to support us. 8 months here with me and didn't find smurf.

Okay I'm all done. -.- pissy since I woke up about it all.

Quoting xONikki:" So my family is feuding STILL with my SO who moved out and they aren't happy he moved out. He left maybe ... [snip!] ... work to support us. 8 months here with me and didn't find smurf. Okay I'm all done. -.- pissy since I woke up about it all."

Thats none of your family's business. Whether or not they like it, SO is the father of your child and they can't legally keep him from seeing his kid. Tell them to back off a bit.

<blockquote><b>Quoting xONikki:</b>" So my family is feuding STILL with my SO who moved out and they aren't happy he moved out. He left maybe ... [snip!] ... work to support us. 8 months here with me and didn't find smurf. Okay I'm all done. -.- pissy since I woke up about it all."</blockquote>




So he's looking to support you, you're still together, and your parents are pissed why?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Naocorn:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting xONikki:</b>" So my family is feuding STILL with my SO who moved ... [snip!] ... about it all."</blockquote> So he's looking to support you, you're still together, and your parents are pissed why?"</blockquote>




I think it all boils down to their own insecurities, mom don't want me giving in to a man and putting up with bs, dad thinks he's not manning up at all and getting away with doing whatever he wants away from here and me stuck here pregnant. That's again my choice though. -.- it's so aggravating!! I know they just care A LOT but they suck at handling it. -.-

<blockquote><b>Quoting NevviesMom:</b>" Thats none of your family's business. Whether or not they like it, SO is the father of your child and they can't legally keep him from seeing his kid. Tell them to back off a bit."</blockquote>




I have told them! >.< told them I think it's better this way right now and I don't need the stress and they just get pissy and upset at the thought that I could be moving away(no time soon) but just the thought of it.

<blockquote><b>Quoting xONikki:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting NevviesMom:</b>" Thats none of your family's business. Whether ... [snip!] ... stress and they just get pissy and upset at the thought that I could be moving away(no time soon) but just the thought of it."</blockquote>




Sounds like they have control issues nd letting go issues. Do they have a reason to not like your boyfriend?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Naocorn:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting xONikki:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting NevviesMom:</b>" ... [snip!] ... Sounds like they have control issues nd letting go issues. Do they have a reason to not like your boyfriend?"</blockquote>


For sure! Just sucks because I don't want to hurt anyone of course and I'm going to be upset myself finally leaving the nest but holy smurf they aren't making it easy at all. The only reason they don't care for him right now is because he moved out and moved that far away and they don't want baby and me to be that far when the time comes. -.- they feel he took advantage of their house because we did treat him just like one of us and although he took the garbage out and did everything they did ask for, it just wasn't enough now. >.< I want to sew everyone's mouth shut so I can have a little peace while I still can!