re: custody question.

Quoting ♥K:" This whole thing makes me so upset. I didn't care at first. He lives in a hotel across country for work ... [snip!] ... her, but I figured cross country they wouldn't last because I know how both of them are, but now sshes moving out with him."

Wow that's almost enough to end the relationship with my sister. That is so wrong.

I'm sorry   I don't blame you, I wouldn't want my LO seeing his dad & his aunt together either, that's just.. weird.
But as far as custody & courts go, there's no way you can say who he does & doesn't date, but I'm pretty sure you can make it so he can't LIVE with her & have LO there...

Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" Wow I would never forgive my sister if she did something like that!"

Last I knew she was avoiding me because she's afraid of what I'll say to her. Which is nothing. I mostly just have a strong urge to punch her in the face.

Quoting ma ♥:" Wow that's almost enough to end the relationship with my sister. That is so wrong. I'm sorry   I don't ... [snip!] ... can say who he does & doesn't date, but I'm pretty sure you can make it so he can't LIVE with her & have LO there..."

I can't see him getting many rights anyway as he hadnt seen LO in over a year until he started his thing with my sister. He lives in Maryland, I live in MI. And he lives in a hotel. So it's not like he has strong leverage. I just want to use everything possible I can, and I was hoping that type of relationship would be frowned upon.