Quoting Gir!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting 624582:</b>" Do you wear skinny jeans? I never got super dressed ... [snip!] ... button up, jeans and my boots. Very "western". That's as dressed up as I have gotten in a couple years, not counting my wedding"
My advice to you is to not wear flip flops or sandals, cover your toes. You could wear flats? If you can deal with a skirt, like another poster said, a pencil skirt would look good.
What kind of club are you going to? I only ask because while DH and I were living out in the country everyone used to go to a club in the next town. All the girls dressed normal and wore their steel toes. Back home, I'm from the city, and everyone dresses up in itty bitty dresses to go out...except me because I hate dresses lol.