re: think i going to go crazy

Quoting ♥ darah ♥:" We all do. And when they are so small, we are really limited with our options. We've all been there, ... [snip!] ... pacified, etc. and baby will sleep for several hours at a time in the swing. Just make sure the belly is full first. :-)"

oh i never let him cry i always go and pick him up as soon as he starts cry but my finace get mad and says that i am only spoling him and f i don't get to him quick enough he gets mad at me becuase i am not gettng to fast enough it just really stressful. we do have a swing but it's not put together yet i will def be getting that put together tomorrow and going to the book store

Quoting Mama to William + 1:" Well, there are a few things that it could be, but it sounds like when my son had colic. I was honestly ... [snip!] ... at most during that time period. I don't know how I survived it. Gripe water helped a bit, if you want to give that a try."

how long did the colic last and what is gripe water?

Quoting nikkigoodbear:" oh i never let him cry i always go and pick him up as soon as he starts cry but my finace get mad and ... [snip!] ... we do have a swing but it's not put together yet i will def be getting that put together tomorrow and going to the book store"

Your fiance is insane! You cannot spoil an infant. Babies do not comprehend manipulation until they are near one year of age - sometimes later than that. My husband was the same way until I showed him some research on why it was not okay to use the cry-it-out method (at least for me. some moms do it and that is their prerogative, though like I said, it shouldn't be used until 6 months to a year of age.) Care for the baby however you want to and do not let him dictate how you do - for most mothers it is instinctual to pick up a crying baby. For most men it is not because throughout most of human history it has not been their place. Nurture the hell out of your baby just like you have been. :-) You can NOT spoil a baby. Toddlers yes. Babies no.