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sex after birth...

Waited.
 
43% (20 votes)
Sooner resulting in infection.
 
4% (2 votes)
Sooner and thankfully no infection.
 
52% (24 votes)

re: sex after birth...

posted 24th Nov
Quoting 1st1ontheway:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Tiffany Gillette:</b>" I'm 2 weeks pp, so im curious as to what ... [snip!] ... or did you all have stitches ? Was thinking maybe i could have sex at 4 ish weeks.? lol"</blockquote> I had stitches."

& you had sex 2 weeks pp? they didnt rip?
I wouldn't try it now, because i'm still bleeding, but would be nice to in a cpl weeks.. i havent even looked down there at my stiches because im scared to see what it looks like lol
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I have 1 child & live in London, United Kingdom
posted 24th Nov
<blockquote><b>Quoting Tiffany Gillette:</b>" & you had sex 2 weeks pp? they didnt rip? I wouldn't try it now, because i'm still bleeding, but ... [snip!] ... would be nice to in a cpl weeks.. i havent even looked down there at my stiches because im scared to see what it looks like lol"</blockquote>



I was healed up by a week and a half. The stitches fell out.
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I have 1 child & 3 angel babies & live in Vancouver, British Columbia
posted 24th Nov
had sex today at 3 weeks postpartum. stupid on many levels. absolutely no protection. did not feel good at all, very painful afterwards (had no tears or even grazes). think i'm gonna wait to try again.
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I have 2 kids & live in Tacoma, Washington
posted 24th Nov
Quoting 1st1ontheway:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Tiffany Gillette:</b>" & you had sex 2 weeks pp? they didnt ... [snip!] ... im scared to see what it looks like lol"</blockquote> I was healed up by a week and a half. The stitches fell out."
oh. i think mine are disolvable ?
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I have 1 child & live in London, United Kingdom
posted 24th Nov
<blockquote><b>Quoting Tiffany Gillette:</b>" oh. i think mine are disolvable ?"</blockquote>




Yeah same, they dissolve and fall out. I wasn't sore after they came out so I did the deed. I had a second degree tear.
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I have 1 child & 3 angel babies & live in Vancouver, British Columbia
posted 24th Nov
Quoting 1st1ontheway:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Tiffany Gillette:</b>" oh. i think mine are disolvable ?"</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... Yeah same, they dissolve and fall out. I wasn't sore after they came out so I did the deed. I had a second degree tear."
oh wow! i dont know if mine are , i dont think so.. but im still sore and bleeding.
no idea how u did it after 2 weeks lol.
but you give me hope.. i didnt know they fell out.. ?
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I have 1 child & live in London, United Kingdom
posted 24th Nov
<blockquote><b>Quoting Tiffany Gillette:</b>" oh wow! i dont know if mine are , i dont think so.. but im still sore and bleeding. no idea how u did it after 2 weeks lol. but you give me hope.. i didnt know they fell out.. ?"</blockquote>



I didn't know either until I wiped and saw a string looking thing. I just took it slow.
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I have 1 child & 3 angel babies & live in Vancouver, British Columbia
posted 24th Nov
Quoting bia.:" For those of you who didn't wait until 6 weeks, when did you stop bleeding? o_O lol"

after about 2 1/2 - 3 weeks
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I live in Idaho
posted 24th Nov
Quoting Tiffany Gillette:" I'm 2 weeks pp, so im curious as to what others did also. i had 5 stiches though.. so i probably should ... [snip!] ... so i probably should wait the 6 weeks ? or did you all have stitches ? Was thinking maybe i could have sex at 4 ish weeks.? lol"
i didn't have stitches with my 2nd or 3rd baby's. after my first i think we still waited until around 5 weeks or so. i'm not sure how many stitches i had after my 1st, but it was only a 1st degree tear so probably not many
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I live in Idaho
posted 30th Nov
I waited 2 years, and it felt wonderful.
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I'm due July 18th, have 1 child & live in Texas
posted 30th Nov
<blockquote><b>Quoting misskat!:</b>" I waited 2 years, and it felt wonderful."</blockquote>




D:
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I have 2 kids & live in Hurley, New Mexico
posted 1st Dec
Quoting Chelsea.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting misskat!:</b>" I waited 2 years, and it felt wonderful."</blockquote> D:"
 
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I have 1 child & live in London, United Kingdom
posted 1st Dec
I waited beyond 6 weeks. lol
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I have 1 child & live in Memphis, Tennessee
posted 2nd Dec
You all may not realize - but they say to wait because if you do get an infection (slight but real chance) it can travel through your blood stream & become sepsis - the 2nd leading cause of death to hemmorhage. It's not like a yeast infection we are talking risking her e -it is like deadly infection & I actually do know someone who got an infection. I don't know if she waited or not (and I am certainly not going to ask that now), but I know she was in a coma by 5 weeks & woke up 4 months later with no limbs - no joke, from an infection she got in her uterus that went to her blood. You can also get what is called an air embolism & that can cause heart attack or stroke & instant death. I know I sound like someone's old gramma Debbie Downer - but for real - there is no sex good enough to risk that even if the risk is 1 in 10,0000 or something. None. I am dead serious that she held her baby at 5 weeks & will never hold that baby again. So yeah - knowing he r- no way on earth did a penis come near me until 6 weeks.
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I'm due January 21st, have 2 kids & 8 angel babies & live in Climax, Michigan
posted 2nd Dec
Quoting justanothamotha:" You all may not realize - but they say to wait because if you do get an infection (slight but real chance) ... [snip!] ... 5 weeks & will never hold that baby again. So yeah - knowing he r- no way on earth did a penis come near me until 6 weeks."
Yep taking a bath is risking it too,i took that risk because i missed my baths so damn much. But holy smurf you just scared to me to death i wont take baths after i have my next child smurf.  
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I have 1 child & live in Memphis, Tennessee
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