everything is in tatters

My boyfriend hasn't spoken to me in three days. Ignores my texts, "works through" his split shift, and when he comes home he goes straight to bed and rigidly lays on his side of the bed. If I even accidentally touch him he like recoils away.

He absolutely refuses to tell me what the smurf is up, he's left his lunches and dinners I've prepared for him untouched in the fridge, and he sent my call straight to voicemail.

I've packed up some of my stuff to stay a few days with a friend. I refuse to be the only one in this relationship.

I need a drink  

Did something happen?

and he wont tell you whats wrong? do you think theres another lady in the picture?

<blockquote><b>Quoting lolajessup:</b>" Did something happen?"</blockquote>



Nothing he's deigned to make me aware of.

So what is he eating?
I'm sorry he's acting like a jerk. He should be trying to make sure you're comfortable right now, not the other way around. From your posts he sounds like a dick in general

Quoting Radame N Angela Robles:" and he wont tell you whats wrong? do you think theres another lady in the picture?"

This is the first thing that came to mind since reading this and your last thread.

Wow, I wonder what is up his ass.

I'm sorry OP. Maybe getting away for a few days will help both of you.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Radame N Angela Robles:</b>" and he wont tell you whats wrong? do you think theres another lady in the picture?"</blockquote>




That's the only thing I'm sure it ISN'T. He's either at work or at home, there's no mysterious gaps in his schedule he could squeeze anyone else in.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Supafly★:</b>" So what is he eating? I'm sorry he's acting like a jerk. He should be trying to make sure you're comfortable right now, not the other way around. From your posts he sounds like a dick in general "</blockquote>



I assume he eats lunch with his client and he probably picks up fast food on the way home. He definitely doesn't make anything here.

That's so random. You really need to catch him and force him to talk. Or do all the talking and make him listen until he gives into talking to you.

<blockquote><b>Quoting lolajessup:</b>" That's so random. You really need to catch him and force him to talk. Or do all the talking and make him listen until he gives into talking to you."</blockquote>




I probably will after a weekend of girl time. I feel too emotionally exhausted to deal with his smurf now.

He just sent me a text asking me to be up when he gets home so we can talk   I told him I'm at my friend's.

Quoting dat uterus tho:" He just sent me a text asking me to be up when he gets home so we can talk   I told him I'm at my friend's."

that dont sound good.

Quoting dat uterus tho:" He just sent me a text asking me to be up when he gets home so we can talk   I told him I'm at my friend's."

If you really want to talk, maybe you should be there so at least you get some answers

<blockquote><b>Quoting Snickles:</b>" If you really want to talk, maybe you should be there so at least you get some answers"</blockquote>




Maybe if he wants to come get me, which is unlikely. I bused here and they've already stopped running for the night.