Quoting ♥DJPAPITO♥+1:" Sorry to hear that...sucks. Have you tried going to counseling? It could be worth a try ! "
Quoting babymouse42:" I really do not know what to say , I just want to let you know that you can message me and vent if you want to at anytime ! I know about BPD my son has it . I'm sad reading your post ! Hugs to you"
Quoting *...*...*...*:" He absolutely does not want to."Yea it's kind of useless if he's not interested. Maybe he needs some time to think about it and not feel pressured. Hopefully he can rethink it and opt for counseling before doing anything else.
Quoting *...*...*...*:" I think time would probably make it worse. It just reinforces how much he likes his free time and doing ... [snip!] ... his free time and doing things with his friends. It's kind of to that "smurf or get off the pot" time and it's just so scary."Yea I can only imagine how you feel. It could go either way though...he might miss his family too..at least my DH felt that way. We were about to separate but he did realize that his family was of utmost important. Good luck hun! I hope it works out!!