Quoting ~ Emily & Kale ~:" yes thats what I told him. I hate anal... Yeah thats what it is it's almost annoying b.c it gets so ... [snip!] ... lol that might be "squirting" which we have studied, and studied on how to get me to do it. I have before twice with my ex."
yeah i don't really like the sitting on his face thing because i can't relax and therefor can't enjoy it. but i've read several times that the 'peeing' feeling is just something you have to get past before you squirt. however..just the other day i had that feeling, pushed past it, didn't pee or squirt..lol.
just tell him you are supposed to be relaxed...that means no anal and no sitting on his face....tell him you want to lay and do it the old fashioned way.