Quoting .:ANIMAL:.:" So my son was born vaginally no issues, normal uterus. After I had him I got diagnosed with Ovarian Cancer, ... [snip!] ... want to do it, but I'd at least like to have the option, and not have my husband freaked out or grossed out by my vagina."
If you have/had ovarian cancer and are bleeding a bunch you need to go see your Dr. Preferably the one treating your cancer. Seriously. Cancer is a big deal (as you know) and issues like bleeding a bunch is something they shoudl be dealing with.