Quoting min.:" and cleaning?? If your DH/SO is incredible at house work-please leave now and don't tell me about it ... [snip!] ... do you get a lazy man to clean??? I've seriously tried bribing him with sex... UGHHHHH!!!!!! i shoulda married a gay man..."
My husband is no good at cleaning either. Although my situation is different and I don't expect him to clean because I am the stay at home parent and I feel cleaning is MY job. He works all day and doesn't need to come home to a mess and start cleaning.
If your hubby is staying home and you are working full time, you need to like spend a day with him showing him how to clean.. what I will say is.. when I was sick my husband cleaned it was nice of him and I appreciated it... however.. his standards of clean are VERY different then mine haha. If he was the stay at home parent I'd have to teach him a few things!