Quoting Sierra&Aria[09.14.12]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting melindapple:</b>" Have you talked to him about what you consider ... [snip!] ... stuff and he doesn't (which may be more respect than love but ya know) and when something's wrong he pretends it doesn't exist."
Okay, but have you told him that specifically? Like I said he may not understand what you mean when you ask him to show you that he loves you. If you haven't I suggest telling him how it bothers you and how much it would mean to you if he at least tried to work on it. If you have already talked about it, maybe try doing some counseling. DH and I haven't taken marriage counseling or anything, but we already had DD and were living together prior to getting married. So the premarital counseling actually helped us a lot, and we've pretty much been on the same page about everything ever since.