Quoting Gir!:" I would like to know who in their right mind would stay? There is actually a little more to this. Like ... [snip!] ... and run her mouth all the time, no matter what it's about. He literally sat 3 feet away an just watched, then sided with her"
I don't know anyone who would stay. I hope you can get out of there, because you don't need that and for SURE your children don't. If he treats you like that when things get a little difficult, then how's he going to treat you when things get worse? It sounds like he's a hell of a man
You could probably talk to a lawyer and they would be able to help you find somewhere to go in the meantime. I know a lot of lawyers won't charge to just consult with them.