Quoting LolaMcKitten:" I see nothing wrong with it either way. I mean, our oldest is 9, he has two and we have yet to have ... [snip!] ... James and he has gone by TJ since he was a baby - except at work, they call him Tom, which is extremely weird for me. "
I always loved TJ, as well...That would be weird, if you've called him something you're whole life and they call him something totally different.
My other favorite is J.P, but I think I like JT better...Very manly!
And considering I've got 7 yes's, and 5 could be worse, I'll count that a win. Jasper Timothy Alan it is!