Quoting nikkigoodbear:" I have talked two and told her that i still love her and will always love her but she just dosen't seem ... [snip!] ... i do get back to sleep i have to get right back up becuase the baby and the kids wake up and its the same thing all over again"
1) Tell the man NO if you are that tired
2) Have him help more when he is home
When you talk to her what does she say? Have you had any special time with just her since the baby was born? What about dad is he having special time with the older girls? Part of it is just going to be an adjustment and her realizing she isnt the baby anymore.