re: Wanting to steals hubby's sperm

Quoting MysticWitchKat:" 1.take hubbies pants off 2.blow hubby 3.catch sperm in mouth but dont swallow 4.spit into turkey baster 5.baste vagina"

omg, I just threw up a little....lol

Quoting Legendary Amanda:" I don't know how much clearer I could have made that for ya, sweetheart. "

... No it was not clear at all

Quoting SkinnyBitch:" After all these years I know having a baby is the best option for use, just glad that crying this morning and expressing myself got the damn point across to my thick headed husband."

So he changed his mind in the 30 minutes? Cause you cried?

Quoting Legendary Amanda:" I'm kinda in the same boat as you actually. Does SO have any kids from previous relationships? I mean.. my husband KNOWS wtf we're getting ourselves into, haha!"

Nope, this is his first. & LO had just turned 3 and was sort of potty training when we met, so he missed out on the fun of dirty diapers and sleepless nights.

Quoting SkinnyBitch:" Thank you and no I am 19."

Oh ok well just ignore people babies are a blessing and a gift ... when someone is young they always claim your life is smurfed ignore the negative  

hope you get pregnant soon and that all goes well...

Quoting Kelly&Coralie:" So he changed his mind in the 30 minutes? Cause you cried? "

Sounds mature and extremely logical.

Quoting JiLLiAN.:" Sounds mature and extremely logical."

Just what I was thinking

Quoting JiLLiAN.:" Nope, this is his first. & LO had just turned 3 and was sort of potty training when we met, so he missed out on the fun of dirty diapers and sleepless nights."

Oh man, at least it'll be fun experiencing it all with him. Especially because you already know what to do, so you can just be all "Don't worry Bro, I got this." when he's all...

Quoting Bustie:" Oh ok well just ignore people babies are a blessing and a gift ... when someone is young they always ... [snip!] ... is young they always claim your life is smurfed ignore the negative   hope you get pregnant soon and that all goes well..."

Having a child is a LIFE ALTERING event for ANYONE.

He did not change his mind we are still talking about it but he says he felt pressured did not even want to have sex since I was only about TTC I told him I would show him that will change. We will just let things happen.

Quoting JiLLiAN.:" Having a child is a LIFE ALTERING event for ANYONE."

life altering yes not smurfed which is what i was trying to say..

Quoting Bustie:" Oh ok well just ignore people babies are a blessing and a gift ... when someone is young they always ... [snip!] ... is young they always claim your life is smurfed ignore the negative   hope you get pregnant soon and that all goes well..."

No your life is smurfed. It's not even your life anymore, your life is over. Everything you do, every decision you make is no longer about you.

Quoting Bustie:" life altering yes not smurfed which is what i was trying to say.."

well, it does smurf it up for some people. has OP taken into account the hormonal/physical changes? Post-partum depression and/or psychosis?

Also, your life is no longer your own. You have someone depending on you 24/7. Every decision you make is now affecting another human being...

Quoting JiLLiAN.:" well, it does smurf it up for some people. has OP taken into account the hormonal/physical changes? Post-partum ... [snip!] ... is no longer your own. You have someone depending on you 24/7. Every decision you make is now affecting another human being..."

Word.

It's not even really your life anymore. When was the last time you made a decision and only took your wants and needs into consideration? I bet it was somewhere before conception of your first   your life is over when that second line comes through   

Quoting SkinnyBitch:" He did not change his mind we are still talking about it but he says he felt pressured did not even want ... [snip!] ... even want to have sex since I was only about TTC I told him I would show him that will change. We will just let things happen."

well you guys are young sure it will happen sooner than later